this guy has kind of been chasing me for years. whenever is is out in town he always texts me to see if im out too. he even did this when i was in my previous 6 year relationship.
since i split with my ex 8 months ago, which he knows about, we have met up a few times, only by chance, when we are out in town. we have only kissed.i have been abit of a tease by staying over his place. he does want to take things further sexually.
after we have met up, i dont hear from him ann he ignore all my messages. then, out of the blue, i hear from him again and the whole thing starts again!
why does he behave like this???
what he up to?
when we are together he makes me feel special and he is always complimenting me. i would love for him to ask me out rather than leaving things to chance.
2007-01-22 00:53:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didnt end my previous relationship for this guy and he did know my ex and that we were engaged with our own place. they were never friends and my ex has since moved away.
i have heard that he likes the chase. can the chase really go on for this long if hes not really that interested in me?
hes 29 and single. he has his own place too and we both have the same career.
2007-01-22 00:54:19 · update #1
Ask him outright what his long term ideas are for the two of you is he looking for no strings or to build a potential relationship.
2007-01-22 00:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by Joanne A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason he's behaving like this is because you are teasing him and he's getting pissed off with it.
It's really bad from to play games with people, if you don't want to be with, then don't be with him. He might be ignoring the possibility of being happy with someone else because he's too busy chasing after you.
2007-01-22 01:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jimwon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he only ever wanted friendship from you and now youre single he,s panicking a bit thinking you might want more and he doesnt.if i were you id ask him nx time you see him maybe he just thinks you need a bit of time after youre last relationship and doesnt want to be the rebound guy.
2007-01-22 00:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by smiler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really wana be with him, you need to talk to him. Ask him if he's seriously interested or if all he's interested in is messing you about.
If this is all just a game, it's gone on far too long.
2007-01-22 00:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Yasmin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means: You're a hottie!!! He's clearly trying to get some. If he respected you, or cared about how you feel, he'd keep in touch more.
2007-01-22 00:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by HunterGreen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon hes just stringing you along and hopeful that you might give him whats hes looking for.
2007-01-22 01:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by traveller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋