Hi all, i have actually broke off with my bf for abt 1 yr. we do contact each other but getting lesser. should i get a gift for him? his bday happen to be on the next day of vday. but if yes, wat shd i get? any ideas to share?
love,
jiebin
2007-01-22 00:50:58 · 30 answers · asked by smile 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No
Don't buy him a thing. Buy YOU something instead. What did he get you? NOthing. That is what YOU are going to get him. NOTHING.
2007-01-22 00:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by holeeycow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should get get him something b/c even though u too have broke up u still should be friends. i am having the same problem right now. i just broke up with my bf of 4 months and his bday is january 23, which is tommorrow. i dont think i should get him anything but i can still tell him happy bday so he'll still know that i care for him.
2007-01-22 01:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are no longer in a relationship with this guy, there's no need to buy presents for him anymore. plus he might interpret it the wrong way and think you wanna get back together with him.
if your not good friends anymore, no point, just save your money and keep it in your pocket until your next love interest comes. it's over forget him, i'm sure he dos'nt care bout buying you a present anymore.
don't mean to be harsh or anything but i'm just telling it like it is, girlie. don't do it!
2007-01-22 00:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Milly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still get my ex a present every year, but hes still one of my closest friends, you have to consider what he will think if you get him a present, will he take it as just a present or some sort of indication that want to get back with him, and as for what to get him, you were with him a year so you should have a fair idea what he likes, safe presents are just something simple like a dvd he likes or a cd.
2007-01-22 00:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Calebs Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, no. Unless you just like to waste your money. Or you're trying to get back with him and you think a gift will do the trick. Otherwise, why bother? Especially if he has a new girlfriend. You'd just be stirring up trouble. Oh, maybe that's what you're trying to do?
2007-01-22 00:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Unless you are interested in getting back together with him. You broke it off. He may (probably) still has feelings for you. If you get him a present, he will think you still care about him, and he will think he has a chance to win you back. Does he have a chance to win you back ? If you think he does, get him a present. If he doesn;t, then don't. It will open the floodgates to phone calls and presents from him.
2007-01-22 00:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by faclark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ZERO, do not buy ex's presents. Unless you are looking for a quick refresher under the covers of what all you are missing.
Spend your precious time looking for a current love. What's over is over.
2007-01-22 00:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your contact with your x is the like the contact you would have with any other friends and you would buy them a present, then yes. Otherwise no.
2007-01-22 00:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think a gift is necessary. Send a card if you want to wish him a good day.
2007-01-22 00:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you? Did you get him presents before he was your boyfriend? If the answer is no then don't. He's an Ex, means no longer.
2007-01-22 00:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by namsaev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋