My ex wanted to marry me we were toghether 2.5 years we broke up and she told me i broke her heart. she says she was unahppy for ages in the relationship. we didnt talk for 3 months partly my fault angry she broke up. why does she always call me tell how good he is, then finally starts telling me he is weak, and she with him for security and he is good to her. and she calls me up after she goes home from with him, before she goes work and we talk for ages. sometimes i think she doesnt like him, it sounds like rebound, but seh wont leave him.she said she was hurt after break up and he was there.but then she says should of just been friends with him. its her friends bro so he knew all her probs and how to act to get her. what can i do to get her back or is she testing me see if i changed.she says he will never hurt her but doesnt sound like she respects him cause he does what ever she says also she said she will learn to love him. what should i do cut contact cause she needs me to tlk to
2007-01-22 00:36:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just listen to her i think she just needed time away from you but she didnt know how to do it.
give her second chane she will come around when she does grasp hold of her and never let go.
good luck.
2007-01-22 00:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had to go thru this situation 3 yrs ago...my relationship was normal for like 2 months and then for 9 months after that it wasnt...it was long distance but it was very hard and initially there was marriage material...anyway she left me a week b4 my bday for an ex coworker that lived in her area cuz we all worked together...later on she told me that and i couldnt talk to her b.c i was convinced she left him for me...we started talkin again as friends after a while and for a while i was having a bad relation after that and she knew all about u...she never said she wanted to come back...i just met a wonderful girl and i liked her alot and my ex has her life set(shes engaged, has a new house, new car, anything she wants) but she sys her fiancee just aint cuttin it b/c he a dumbass..she wanted to come back..i feel that after i went thru her **** the first time, if i took her again she would probably hurt me again...so even though it was hard to say to say no to her i did...i think that u shouldnt be this chicks backup plan, especially if u guys were supposed to marry and she just walked out on u like she did. she shouldve just communicated about not being happy w/ some aspect of the relation instead of walkin out. now its too late, tell her she blew it. if u want her back after reading this, do the same thing but be there to listen to what she has to say, just dont buy into the crap. if u play it cool she might come back if she thinks it over. good luck
2007-01-22 08:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by wizzpack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is trouble with a cap T.....move on with your life...she is just playing with your emotions and also with his....she is using everyone and I don't think she is a kind or loving person....at the very least she is morally bankrupt...good luck
2007-01-22 08:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋