a couple of weeks ago my boyfriend and father of my 3yo child, thought it would be fun to get on the internet after i had gone to bed and sign up on a website to meet local women just for sex. He then accidently left his user name and password on the table where i found it in the morning. when i asked him about it he said it was just for fun i had to cry for the whole day before he would apologise, but after i calmed down he said he wasn't sorry and that it was all a bit of fun. i feel i have a right to be upset but he doesn't seem to care
2007-01-21 23:38:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have every right to be upset! Ask him how he would feel if you were going online to meet men "just for sex."
Since you have a child together, that makes your situation difficult (my daughter is in a similar situation and they have a 15 month old). If you are dependent on your boyfriend financially, you might want to keep calm while you take the steps you need to to be able to support yourself and your child without his help (other than child support, of course).
If you decide to stay, realize that it probably wasn't the first time your boyfriend has done something like that---and it probably won't be the last---especially if he doesn't feel that he has done anything wrong. If he was sincere or remorseful, that might be another story and I'd suggest counseling. However, it sounds like he just doesn't care.
Oh, and last of all, if you decide to stay with him----use condoms. I doubt that his cheating will remain confined to cyberspace.
Good luck to you.
2007-01-21 23:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by ms_quiltsalot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is it "JUST FOR FUN?"
He should be worried about being a good father and partner to you and not playing on the Internet.
Anything that causes issues in you relationship should be stopped. Tell him have his fun other ways, and get off these dating sites.
2007-01-22 07:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by *Lovely* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you have the right to be upset, and maybe its a good time for you to take a break.
If my boyfriend went on a website for sex only, Id freak on his @ss.
2007-01-22 07:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time to pack your bags and leave this guy! He obviously doesn't really care about you if he did this and is not apologizing for it.
2007-01-22 07:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋