If you're a mom, do you make your daughter(s) wear a bra? Are they allowed to be braless if they want? If you're a gil, are you allowed to be braless if you want? Is there any punishment in case of rebelling or disobedience? What punishment?.
I'm 13 and I have to wear a bra, it's a mom's law. She even choses my bras, because she says she's more experienced. This is a law. She's not harsh, she treats me with much love and I know she wants my best. But when it comes to bras I think she goes overboard, not fore making me wear one (I'm a C cup, I need one) but for choosing my bras.
2007-01-21 23:05:33 · 12 answers · asked by Marta M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Braless should be a choice when you've come home and are getting ready for bed---sleeping without one is best!
You're 13---MOM knows best in picking out bras for you. MOM pays the bills ----When you are old enough to get a JOB and support your buying then MOM will step aside and let you purchase the bras you want.
My daughter is 15 and I still purchase all of her under clothing---She's a large busted size too. She prefers the sports bras due to being an athlete in school.
Your day and time will come and you'll be thankful then that MOM footed the bill for the bra items. They're expensive!!
2007-01-21 23:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're 13. Your mom knows quite a bit more about what's best for you than you do. Know it sounds old fashioned, but you will find life a lot easier if you listen to her. When you're 18 and an , you can go braless if you want.
2007-01-21 23:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I only have a son, but if I did have a daughter I would definitely insist that she wear a bra. Why would you not want to? I can't stand to go without one. You'll be glad when you get older that your mom made you wear one. And I imagine she would let you help pick out one if you'd ask her.
2007-01-21 23:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo 13 and a c that sucks well im the only girl with two brothers who always have other boys over so it'd b weird if i didnt wear a bra....but im small only a b-dont hate they're nice- so if i wear a big shirt u cant tell...i dont wear a bra to bed...but i did until i went to college and none of the girls did there....but u have some big ones so yea i think its a good idea that u do....
2007-01-21 23:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by dana <3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not a law in my family but a necessity, as we were well endowed and bra-less just wasn't an option, it looked ridiculous....but, we did get to pick our own bras, as should you, your mom can help you decide but you should be choosing your bras, unless your mom doesn't trust your judgment. Ask her for her input but tell her that you would really like to pick them out yourself....in a nice way, so she doesn't get offended.
2007-01-21 23:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should wear a bra but maybe u could talk to ur mom to let u participate in the choosing, as she is the one paying for it and u the one wearing it
2007-01-22 00:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by gday770 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a mom, i'm a dad, and to be honest i wish both my wife and daughters would wear bra's when they are at home. I hear they are somewhat uncomfortable to wear but still wish they would wear them when i'm around, and i don't like them not wearing them when doing household cleaning and stuff.
2007-01-21 23:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are but since my daughters are grown it wouldn't be appropriate or pleasant for any of us to go without. I'm sure your Mom is doing what she considers best for you. Could you maybe ask her if you could have more input into choosing your bras? Whilst she's paying you may just have to accept her choices. Maybe at Christmas/birthdays you could ask for money or vouchers then use it/them to go choose your own?
2007-01-21 23:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
mum always knows best. actually its gd to wear a bra most of the time so yr breast won't sag in future. maybe you can plead with her nicely or buy it uself when you r out without her.as for my family we are free to decide on this matter.
2007-01-21 23:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by istina jap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her about it. she does know more about them but between her and the bra fitter at the shop im quite sure you can learn what makes a good bra and then you can work your way up from there. maybe she wants to make sure you aren't growing up too fast in other areas if you get my point.
2007-01-21 23:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by ahsatin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋