2007-01-21 23:00:47 · 16 answers · asked by tony 007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look girl, you are engaged, you commit to someone else, you loved by someone. a married man cannot love you more than what you are expecting, its just that, you do as a two tango, you never think the possibilites of doing such this? you grave the family of that man, and you betrayed your lover on the other hand, if this married man can do love you in his own right, im pretty sure if he meets someome more than you maybe he can do this once again, you have the common dinominator to both of you "betryaing" friend the man you are referring to is committed already and im sure he has kids. please dont try to grave them, you can do a lot of things by yourself, by your family, by your friends and by your boyfriend. dont focus yourself to that man, because the more you focus your self the more you determined to attached with him, Neglect that feelings of your and try to close your boyfriend, somehow your feelings towards him will be diminished....Good Speed!
2007-01-21 23:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by mcjames d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a BAD situation here. B/c there's ALOT of dishonesty here. Why are you engaged? You don't love him if you are having ANYTHING to do with another man and worse a married one. And what makes you think this married man is 'seriously' in love with you? If he was so 'seriously' in love w/ you, wouldn't he leave his wife to BE with you? I'm not trying to be rude, but it sadly looks like you 'seriously' love the married man who won't leave his wife and then accepted an innocent man's proposal b/c you think it will 'show' the 'married man' he better hurry and choose you.
DON'T DO THAT to yourself, your fiance', or the married man. You will lose every battle here if you don't get real.
Let the married man stay married, that's begging for a whole lot of heartache and you will lose your fiance' b/c he'll discover you don't really love him eventually or either he'll find out about the married man and realize he made a terrible misjudgement as to the type of woman he thought he wanted to marry.
BE REAL- - - to yourself and everyone you drug into this mess.
I just hope you can live w/ yourself after it's all said and done.
Quote:'we lie the loudest when we lie to ourselves'
2007-01-21 23:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by paigenstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love with a married man who has given his word to love, honor, etc. another woman! Why would you want to mess up your life like this? Step back and look at the consequences, then run far far away from the thought of getting involved with a married man. Think of your own self respect. That will go down the tubes. You need to consider that you have to live with yourself for a long long time.
2007-01-21 23:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by desertflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got engaged to a married man? Okay, so he's cheated on his wife by having an affair with you. Do you really know what you have gotten yourself into? One really big mess is what you have.
He's going to tire of you just like he did with his current wife and go out sometime in the future and do the same thing he did to his wife with some other woman. Are you prepared for this?
I'd break this relationship off and go find a really decent man to get hooked up with.
2007-01-21 23:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that you actually think that married man is in love with you. You need to let go of the guy you're engage to. That way he can go out and find someone that love him.
2007-01-21 23:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married man is committed to another lady not you ..don't be a tool for cheating ,,,,and since you are still engaged there is time to break up because apparently you don't love your fiance ..but this man is not your property ..it is his choice to cheat on his wife ..but it is your choice to be the tool ..after all he has already gone to the church and made his vows to another woman and this is irreversible ...and you would never respect your self if you were the reason of destroying a family ....and legally and out of duty he is responsible from her not you ..don't be cheap and don't allow people to treat you cheaply .....
2007-01-21 23:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by Silent tear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then you answered your own question brake off the engagement and follow your heart don't be selfish by leading your partner on its not fair give him or her a chance to get over you and find someone new
2007-01-21 23:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put yourself in the place of his wife and how would you feel. you are not being fair to your fiance at all.
if this man can cheat on his wife then no doubt he will do it with you in the future, is this what you want your life to end up like.
if you dont love your fiance tell him now and move on, let this married man get on with life and work out his own martial problems. you have no place in his life.
2007-01-21 23:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get yourself into drama, jus let it go, it aint worth it. It happens but it dont mean you shoould be together, what if you marry him and againhe falls in love with another engaged woman and leaves you for her, any person who tastes divorce find it normal. Ha
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2007-01-22 00:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. no no no no. Is it possible he just wants a piece? Yes. If he divorces her, then proceed, but don't be the "other woman" you'll just end up with a lot on you.
2007-01-21 23:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋