the world is just sooo tempting...!!! and my boyfriend is just soo hot! it's so hard to keep out of bounds when it comes to limitations in these kind of temptations...
2007-01-21 22:44:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do NOT do it. Listen to what your heart is telling you. If you like your boyfriend, you wouldn't have sex with him unless you get married to him in the future, otherwise it wouldn't be fair to him or you for that matter. Please don't, or you will regret it.
2007-01-21 22:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know how old you are but if you were my daughter I would say wait until you are in a stable relationship and use a condom etc. If you were my friend I would say have fun but be safe. It is more hurtful if you have sex and the relationship does not work out, particularly if it is your first time. I think premarital sex is a good idea if you are planning to spend your life with somebody to make sure that he thrills you in this way. Good luck
2007-01-21 22:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by rosebud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
>80 3% of individuals are Christian Huh? that provides me reason to doubt your first stat besides... As for the % of hypocrites and so on. purely God is acquainted with. Morey: Claiming to be a Christian is trouble-free, particularly being one is slightly greater complicated. curiously the individuals doing the polling you're observing don't understand the thank you to distinguish. additionally having particularly lived in the process the 60s and 70s i detect it very difficult to have confidence the % of individuals having premarital intercourse have been comparable to far back simply by fact the 50s than they are actually. I went to extreme college interior the SF bay section (i.e. no longer precisely the bible belt) and ninety 5% of my fellow jocks weren't even claiming to have had intercourse interior the 70s. think of how low the numbers ought to have been for the so-suggested as geeks.
2016-12-12 17:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by raper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter (25) started having sex when she was 15, she was with the same guy for 6 years. Finally broke it off, and she's been with a couple of others since.
Recently she and i were having a conversation and she came right out and mentioned how she regrets having ever given up her virginity prior to marriage.
She said she stopped having sex with boyfriends and won't again until she is married. She feels as if she gave away part of herself to someone who didn't appreciate it.
2007-01-21 22:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the end it is your body and your choice. Your religiion is a guide on what they believe is best for all, its not always the case.
Make sure you and him have a committed relationship and your doing it for the right reasons. If he is the right one he will wait for you. Their r things other then pentration sex you could do for him.
Go to a family clinic about going on the pill and make sure he wears a condom. They should stop the risk of becoming pregnant.
2007-01-21 22:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK
instead of my usual smartass answer, you better listen up, I don't care where you are from, but in the christian world, premarital sex is a sin, and you are correct to wait, and I will tell you from a long life exp, that men, not boys, but men, will think more of you if you are not wild and sexually active and humpin everything that moves. but in todays world we justify everything by, ohh well, it's o.k., cuz my friend is doing 4 or 5 guys, well, it's not OK, and it's just down right friggin stupid and dangerous, remember, every guy that you screw, you are also screwing every other woman that he has screwed and then every other guy that those women have screwed. sexual trans disease are not funny or cute or heroic, they ****** kill you.
now grow up and act like you have a lil sense.
2007-01-21 22:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by countryboy1959 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are very human and there is nothing wrong with sex before marriage.. just make sure to be safe about it, yous love each other so what does it matter? It doesn't and sex will only build that bond closer :) :) :)
2007-01-21 22:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to figure out which is more important. Having sex or not committing a sin.
2007-01-21 23:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your age and maturity to handle a sexual relationship not what the church thinks you should do and lovemaking I don't see as a sin
2007-01-21 22:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes true i can understand being in your situation you need to be carful - **** luck do not try things you will regret later on- good luck
2007-01-21 22:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋