i hv always lvd a guy for almost 4 yrs but never uttered a word 2 him. and 2 months ago he himself proposed to me. a week ago i went with him on someone's party &after that day he started ignoring me. my frendz sugestd 2 me that maybe he was just using me as thrash but still i wasn't convincd and i grew sad day by day. i then saw him somewhere in a park all alone and just went to him and instead of speaking started crying. and later asked " whatz wrong with you guys?" & he said after a long time" i saw u hugging and taking flowers frm some boy in the party" and then i realised & told him that it was my cousin bro who was 1 yr younger 2 me. & then i angrily asked him why didn't he call me & clarify the doubts & he said "so that ur parents don't know about us as u use ur mom's cell but i did email u" & i actually didn't open my account frm the day he went away frm me.i just said 2 him "you all men r the same & go away"& since didn't speak 2 him but miss him he did apologize no.of timz.
2007-01-21 22:29:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey common...it was a misunderstandin...he did to contact u...al i can say is...after al this if u still love him n u think he loves u too..then go for it...
In life v come across true love only once...n trust me there are very few who get that one chance...
2007-01-21 22:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by kariz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he obviously thinks a lot of you to propose to you. You need to assess how you feel about him. If you really love him and want to marry him you should contact him and talk with him without arguing. Explain how hes made you feel. Give him the chance to talk about his feelings as well without interrupting or starting an arguement. If you don't want to marry him but want a relationship with him, again just talk to him but say you are not ready for marriage. He has been apologising to you so he obviously wants to make amends.
2007-01-21 22:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should forgive him. it's not his fault actually. so i think u two should have a nice long talk about everything.. positive or negative.. it'll work things out
even if u found out that he no longer loves u anymore, just face the music.. if u realised that u two still have a beautifi=ul long way to walk along with, why not go ahead? patch up!
2007-01-21 22:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by l0nERs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..if u really love him, you woudnt just throw away everything because his your eveything. like you said you grew sad each day. maybe thats why he ignored you is because he thought you didnt like his proposal? it was just a simple misunderstanding that led you both to this problem. if you just only talk to him on the first place this woudnt happen, besides, your going out for like 4 years already. you were lucky he was the one apologizing to you. because, no offense, but it was kind of your fault too.
2007-01-21 22:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by claudine aguon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo Gabba Gabba..Awesomeeee
2016-03-29 08:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this is may be elementary, but guys can be absent minded, simple, and jealous sometimes...if he was that pissed off, then he must still like you to be that jealous, sometimes, when you communicate, things work out better, i say that you just go ahead and work things out b/c giving up is not the answer always...if it happens again, something needs to definately give...
2007-01-21 22:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by music ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you miss him and he apologized then contact him and tell him you have forgiven him.Every person in life makes mistakes.We are not perfect and am sure you also do,So why cant you forgive your freind.
2007-01-21 23:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, apologize to him.
If you guys are going to date again, make communication your main priority in order to avoid any more misunderstandings.
Good luck!
2007-01-21 22:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ur fault go and tell him that u love him , may be give him a tender kiss and he'll oblige
2007-01-21 22:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋