i have been seeing my boyfriend for over a year and practically live together but i want to get engaged. He thinks i feel pressured into this by my family but thats not the case i dont want to get married for another few years but i want to get engaged as i feel this is a comitment. i am 25
2007-01-21 20:54:35 · 11 answers · asked by No Name 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You said that you need to be engaged to feel the commitment, do you feel insecure that there is lack of commitment in this relationship? Do you think that your relationship won't last without the engagement? Maybe, the more you pressure him, the less he wants to do it. Just take it easy and let the relationship flows.
2007-01-22 00:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walking down the red carpet aisle is every girl dreams, however not all are being blessed. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7years now and still never married yet. That fact, hurts me a lot but I respect if he decides not to be married yet. Time will come that he will ask me to, and in my surprise, I will be the happiest bride ever. Don't push him to do such things if he is not ready yet. There is a perfect time for this.
2007-01-21 21:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just suggest him to pop on Yahoo Answers with some hints about a certain question which needs a proper answer to be given by a certain guy...
2007-01-21 21:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Houba houba hop 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea I agree with you proposing. If you don't want to then give him a serios talking to and make it VERY clear that this is what YOU want. Explain how much it means to you, that it's a sign of committment, blah blah blah. It'll work, they listen sometimes.
2007-01-21 21:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by stephyrose87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, be honest and tell him that! If he loves you enough to commit himself he will give you the ring... if not, then leave him... and tell him... that you will move on with your life because he is obviously not sure you are the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with.
If he does not commit, do not waste your time.
2007-01-21 21:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by notsure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so sweet! get him to read this [yeah, i no, total embarresment], you worded it really well. if all you want is the security that he wont dump you in the next few years, then go ahead!
2007-01-21 21:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by capsimi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
say it frankly to you boyfriend ..if he refuses he doesnt love you as much as you do love him and the only solution is to leave him ..if he agrees it means he really loves you..by the way relation is betweentwo people both are responsible for it ..
2007-01-21 21:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by Silent tear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this chain should be broken and i guess it should b time for the girls to pop the question, go ahead nothing bad will happen. ask him.
2007-01-21 20:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by Trouble..88 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its the 21st Century... Propose to him. We don't have to wait on the guys anymore!
2007-01-21 20:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by bakfanlin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just go ahead & aske him its your right
2007-01-22 00:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by exquisite Solutions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋