i live in california and its ok to be married in california but do you think is a good idea or a bad one? im being very honest. please help. and where would be a great place to get married, and for the honeymoon.
2007-01-21 20:45:28 · 21 answers · asked by Trouble..88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
no i dont want to have kids, not because we r cousins but i dont think is a good idead, i have been thinking about adoption.
2007-01-21 21:05:03 · update #1
I don't think this is good but relations should be changed. If things like these will be done than what about different relations than there will be only one relation male and female.
According to me best place to get married is India because here people think and obey that marriages are made in heaven. Here the hindus marry once in a life time and most of marriages are succesfull. this means love the only person your lifetime.
2007-01-21 20:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Dev 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To marry within your family is just plain wrong- no matter how you cut it. If you have to ask someones opinion about that relationship, then obviously you know that it isnt alright.
I know they make jokes all the time about kissing cousins, but i think that unless that person is like a DISTANT cousin (maybe 8th removed) then it is way too close to your own bloodline. You say you want to adotp, but if you even consummate the wedding you run the risk of a baby.
But- if you are going through with it- i say do it like everyone else. Dont tell everyone you are cousins, it will only draw outrage and protests. Get married outside of a church becuase i dont think churches condone it. have a nice reception and honey moon in a discreet location- have you tried an Alaskan cruise? i know it is very pretty up there.
in the end it will be up to you- but honey I am going to have to say you are asking for more problems than it is worth.
good luck with your decision
2007-01-22 15:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it is a little strange - but then again, Mary and Joseph were cousins and it used to be customary to marry first or second cousins (think Gone With The Wind) But - I do have an uncle who married a cousin and both his sons are mentally handicap to some extent. Besides, there are tons of other options today, why bother?
2007-01-22 00:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Chrys 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is first cousins it is not a good idea since your children may be born with damage... due to your gene and his being so similar... (It is like getting married to your brother)...
A good place to get married depends on your taste and the budget...
But you can check SANDALS and get married and honeymoon in Jamaica or any other resort, or take a cruise to the mexican riviera since you are in California or try Hawaii or Aruba.
2007-01-21 20:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by notsure 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I though you can only do that in West Virgina where the children have one eye-brow and buck teeth. A famous Honeymoon place in California is at the Madonna Inn. It is not related to the singer. It is semi-near the Hearst Castle another good place to go on a tour while on your Honeymoon.
2007-01-21 20:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
It is also legal in the UK, although I do not think I would ever marry any of my cousins. They do say that there is a higher risk of birth defects if the couple have children, but if it is legal then there is nothing legally wrong with it.
2007-01-21 23:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS long as the cousin is not A FIRST COUSIN. than its ok with me. You see first cousins as far as in blood are tooo close for haveing children with you know inbreeding. The jean pools 2 shallow for that. second cousins or cousins by marrage its all good.
Befor I moved from MONTANA I was seeing one of my second cousins unknown to me untill I brought my girl home 4 dinner and my MOM was talken with her and she says your glorias girl ill be than we are cousins then by blood. NEEDLESS to say With THE
MOVIE DELIVERANCE STILL FRESH IN MY HEAD
after dinner I took her home and we both agreed that we should break it yet stay friends and dont tell any one why we split up beacuse we didnt want to hear is it true the closer the KIN THE DEEPER YOU SLIDE IN,INCEST IS BEST PUT YOUR COUSIN THROUGH THE TEST when we were at school or seen together.
needless to say we moved to PHOENIX and THEIR I HAD NO WORRIES ABOUT BEING REALATED TO ANY ONE THEIR I DATED.
2007-01-21 21:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by walter c 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he loves you and you love him there is noting wrong with it. Moral values are created by religious believes and the society that surrounds you; the only thing you have to stress about is the conflict or stress this marriage will bring you because of your family differences of opinion and moral value beliefs.
2007-01-21 23:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by ashira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a redneck from Tennessee and we don't have any problem with it. Of course you need to have a blood test just to make sure your kids don't come out looking like the kid in Deliverance.
2007-01-21 20:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you're in love then screw the rest of the people that say dont do it.
I do agree on the gene part...that cant be changed. Do get a blood test just to make sure it won't harm your child. If it would then why not adopt? :)
2007-01-21 20:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by Renin 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋