I mean immediatly after. would you be offended if someone told you to be quiet
2007-01-21 20:28:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell them that you don't like it.
2007-01-21 20:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be a good idea in the moment but maybe it would be a good conversation to have out of the bedroom.
Just tell your partner some things that you do like (that he/she does do) and then cheerfully add that you do need a few moments of silence to recover and that you would like it if he/she let you do the talking after (so there will be no confusion of when to start talking).
Everyone likes something different, as long as you are caring and nice about it there should be no problem.
I don't like to be touched right after (I get really ticklish for a while) and it took a few times of explaining that I didn't like that but my partner got it eventually and was not offended at all.
2007-01-22 04:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
""Hey You! I Don't Know You! I Never Met You Before! And I Never Like You! So Keep Quiet!""
2007-01-22 04:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick Cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cuddle or say you just want to enjoy the silence and the closeness you already feel after having sex, my bf doesnt usually like to talk after sex we just have a smoke clean up roll over go sleeo and/or cuddle.
2007-01-22 04:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by fiesty_smoldering_brunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be incredibly offensive. I'd be like "ohhh I'm good enough to **** but not to talk to?!" There's no way to ask that politely. Maybe just ask him if you could cuddle, listen to his heart beat? That might work!
2007-01-22 04:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong ,if explained properly .This can be discussed before sex so that other person does not get a shocker.
2007-01-22 04:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by ramesh c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what most women do, after sex go to the toilet, while your away he falls fast asleep, he presto your a winner. simple and easy.
scott
2007-01-22 04:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by scott g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, NOPE, most men want to sleep after they have a good nut anyway,
2007-01-22 04:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by TEXASMALE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after i bonk a chick i wanna sleep
2007-01-22 04:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by Luke M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend you simply say 'Ssshhh... let's just hold each other quietly for awhile'.
2007-01-22 04:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by chischas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋