My friend likes to chat with guys..(she knows them) but she has a BF sometimes her BF gets angry about this should he?
2007-01-21 20:17:02 · 17 answers · asked by andinghsiang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is fine as long as there are no lies and nothing crosses the line.
2007-01-21 20:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by E-Razz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There should be no problem with this, but It can depend on what they are talking about... As long as it does not go beyond a certain level, with general chit chat an minor flirting, this shoudl not be a problem. If they are open and tell the peeps they are chatting to they have another half. The bf should be trusting, but she should give him no reason for lacking trust!!
2007-01-22 04:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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If you yourself feel guilty... then don't do it! If you aren't chatting them up etc. then you shouldn't be worried. And if it bothers you and you feel it shouldn't, but you still wanna do it, then why not chat to them with your bf around you, let him chat to them as well, then there's no guilt and you may even get some good friends for you and your bf to go out to places with! All the best, have fun, be good. Cheers
2007-01-22 04:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... i would get mad if my man was chatting away with other girls on the internet ... but i do it. i dont go on the internet to meet guys, i just have a few friends on msn that i talk to and most of the time my man is there with me while i chat and my guy friends always say whats up to him even tho they have never met before... so i would tell your girl friend to let her man talk to the guys as well maybe that way he might feel a little bit comforteble
2007-01-22 04:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the anger of the boyfriend shows his jelaousy and i'd say that it is a sign of loving her. there is nothing bad on chatting with other guys until a certain line which shouldn't be crossed. she should show him that he's no. 1 in her life and should be able to give an explanation if there's been a spat because of that.
2007-01-22 04:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Focus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she is only chatting to these boys as friends I don't think her boyfriend should get upset about it. I have plenty of guy friends and my fianceis fine with me chatting online with them. On the same token, he has girls as friends that he chats with and I'm okay with that. Point is if this boyfriend is getting too obsessive, get rid of him.
2007-01-22 04:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by newsoutherngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what ya'll talk about, my girl gets pissed if she sees me even near a computer... that sucks..but you just gotta respect your bf because you would want him to do the exact same thing..you know.
2007-01-22 04:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by fulltime dad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a overly jealous boyfriend. She should break up with him.
2007-01-22 04:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jonathan Pines 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do it all the time. It's better then doing it in person. There is nothing wrong with talking to other people. Just don't tell him. lol
2007-01-22 04:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he shouldnt be angry, and your friend should not chat with other guys, depends if the guy is her old friend.
2007-01-22 04:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by lnfrared Loaf 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋