2007-01-21 20:15:51 · 7 answers · asked by ederlezi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do u love him for what he is or how he matches ur dream?
well the answer clarify the whole relation.
2007-01-21 20:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by hartoport 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If their were things about him that made you love him from the beginning or made you think you could love him,,,,then those things are still their,,,and when you really love someone,,,,with all your heart and soul,,,,you accept them for who they are and not what you think they should be,,,,and maybe what you consider weakness,,,,to him is not,,,,,,everyones perception of people is different,,,,and what you think may not be the same as me or anyone else,,,and ,,,you should love him for him,,,or not at all,,,,because I think if you tried to change him it would only make him into someone that you really dont know,,,,because they would be the person YOU wanted them to be ,,,,not the person that THEY want to be,,,,,understand?????
GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND HIM,,,,AND BE YOURSELVES AND ENJOY EACH OTHER FOR WHO YOU BOTH ARE,,,,,,THAT IS THE REAL LOVE,,,,not perceptions of what we think someone should be or should not be,,,
DAPHNE
2007-01-22 00:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Daphne F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it extremely is an stunning element in existence yet women strengthen up thinking they're princesses and await the day whilst their prince brings them her glass slipper. visit the Engagements talk board and you will see what I mean. of course you are able to love somebody with out marrying them. It relies upon on no matter in case you desire to bend your suggestions and permit her to understand her dream. Marriage is a stupid element, a facade, yet whilst that makes her happy why deny her? ok, she has been married till now, yet to no longer you. ok, it did no longer artwork out, huge deal. You let us know right here that 'you're made for one yet another'. I even have on no account inspired marriage yet on your case, for sometime, you're able to desire to make your woman happy. sturdy luck.
2016-11-26 01:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by bernabeu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE isn't just about love'n them during their strongest points but also their weaknesses!! dealing with the negativity shouldn't be a big issue if it's real LOVE. becuz when it's real..the other things don't matter! it's been blocked by ur LOVE...u get mah drift??
2007-01-21 20:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by islandgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love a person u have to accept him wholly his strengths as well as weaknesses.If u cant do that then u cant have true love
because none would like to live life of other's choice and not of his own
2007-01-21 20:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by cutiepie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello little miss control freak. LOVE is not about changing,controling,dominating,whipping beating,
or misstreating. Love is accepting that person for who he or she is takeing them for all their good&bad charecter defects. It sound to me like your tired of being THE DOMINATE in your realationship. You like him but he is to SUBMISSIVE to&for you.
Due your self A favor break it off and get your self A REAL MAN SOME ONE WHO WILL HAVE YOU AS HIS ALPHA FEMALE TO HIS ALPHA MALE. YOU KNOW. When ever he calls your name you go RUNNING to his side SAYING YES DADDY?
2007-01-21 20:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love him why you need to change him,just sit and talk to him,if he loves you as well both will compromise.weakness is better than abuse or control freak
2007-01-21 20:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by meanstreak007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋