What do i do...we have been in a relationship for past 3 years n its become a routine..if he gives me his attention and love ...i give a damn about it..and if he stops caring..i go into self pity. i am not unhappy with this relationship.n will be hurt if he leaves me.he loves me a lot i guess..
2007-01-21 19:50:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it an ego problem? You wait for him to show love and then you back off ignoring him and when he reciprocates you find it difficult to leave. This is quite amateurish relationship. For building a relationship you should not be selfish or bring in barriers like both of you are doing. This gives an indication that both of you are not in love and there is communication gap. The best option is to let both of you express your feelings. I think this will be of some help.
2007-01-21 20:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yor relationship some un-biased time. Dont decide or conclude that you love him or he loves you. Get into a normal friendship with minimum expectations, so that you can have a unbiased openion about eachother.
I hope this will work. With time you will become sure of your relationship and feelings for that guy.
Cheers!!
2007-01-21 20:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nisha,
Dont think that the boy is loving u.... Actually u r the one loving that boy with sincerely. So that whenever he is looking/speaking/doing something, it reflects ur love within u. Even if he is doing bad approaching the same reflection will come. Any how if it is so, dont wait any more - othewise u will lose that lovely lovable boy. ALL THE BEST......OK#
2007-01-21 20:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by habeebdot@yahoo.co.in 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look as you said that you are in relation ship with him since 3 years if u guys are not understanding at this stage then how you will work out in the future think you got 50 years to live thats the hard fact and if i am not wrong then plz thry to sort it out asap bcoz life never stop ... people come and people goes?
2007-01-22 05:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must try to control your senses and be calm and be patient.If you love him then you need him.Having control over yourself will surely help.Calmness and control has to be developed.Don't get hyper.And don't push yourself into dumps.Be steady and cheerful.See good in everything.You'll surely be a better person.Best of luck.
2007-01-21 20:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kartik A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you rather choose your marriage to artwork then you definately ought to tell the guy this is complaining to your husband approximately your mom to end complaining. if your husband has a concern with your mom then this is his concern and not yours. And your husband has no staggering to end you from seeing your mom. you ought to have self belief that your husband loves you. Your husband has no longer given you a reason which you would be able to no longer have self belief that he would not love you. And in case you purely choose love and peace and no struggling with on your marriage then you definately won't locate that. you will constantly have united statesand downs yet you ought to artwork on it. the only component you ought to do is talk to your husband. enable him comprehend how cruel and unfair it is to you which you would be able to no longer see your mom because of the fact he has a concern along with her. Ask him how he might experience in case you will possibly tell him that he could no longer see his mom. you ought to artwork this out because of the fact in case you do no longer or you are able to no longer come to an comprehend-how then your marriage is going to be affected. talk to your husband and tell him precisely what's on your heart.
2016-10-07 13:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by wardwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guess you love him too, but like the guys say dont want to commit, true love only happens once dont throw it away cause you are undecided
2007-01-21 19:54:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋