My fiance' and I have been together for about 5 years. He has never approved of me having guy friends. But ever once in awhile he'd start being friendly with other females but I don't really sweat it. What do you all think?
2007-01-21 19:04:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! We have not been engaged for 5 years, we have been in a relationship for 5 years
2007-01-21 19:31:12 · update #1
Yes...I have lots of guy friends and only slept with a couple of them...lol
2007-01-21 19:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by Say What? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your fiance doesn't trust you.Him flirting with other women is not the same as having a female friends hes trying to get on to them ,where your friends are just friends even though they are male.Keep an eye on that one.Yes I have male friends that I would never sleep with ever.
2007-01-22 03:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a good friend who is a girl. we've slept in the same bed and cuddled but thats as far as things have went. i have no desire to move things to the next level, and im pretty sure she doesnt either. so yes, a man and a woman can be just friends.
but if your fiance doesnt believe so and hes being "friendly" with other girls, then maybe that tells you something about what his intentions are.
or, then again, maybe not.
2007-01-22 03:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by Nikan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys can never be "just friends" with the opposite sex. Majority of the time, guys start out as friends but then just find these "just friends" to be even more attractive because she is now "one of the guys" and someone they can talk to and be comfortable with. Plus guys become friends with girls just for one reason. Take it from me, I'm a guy.
2007-01-22 03:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by sunny_98146 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Truthfully, I can't be a PRETTY woman's friend.
I will ALWAYS want to do her, even if I haven't got the guts to approach her with it.
Guys who are friends with women are either gay, or they are waiting for that moment that the girl slips up.
I can only be the friend of an UGLY girl that I wouldn't screw no matter how drunk.--And then I wouldn't ever go out with her.
What's good for the gander is good for the goose.
Your hubby is full of sh*t.
He knows what HE wants to do with his female "friends".
And he expects you to do the same with YOUR male friends.
Just keepin' it real.
2007-01-22 03:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It's great, if you're so lucky. I had one a few years ago, and she would listen to my woes with girlfriends, and I would listen to her woes with her boyfriends. We has the same bizarre sense of humor, neither one of us however, was physically atracted to the other. She passed away a few years ago. I miss that kind of relationship.
2007-01-22 03:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by bata4689 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have male friends and I never really knew that it bothered my now husband untill after we got married. Trust me, he plans to get rid of them after he puts that ring on your finger. Stand your ground. Girls and guys can be just friends.
2007-01-22 03:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by Tasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you what the problem is......you have been a fiance for too long...he is getting tired. Have you ever head that too much of a thing is a disease? sit him down and ask him what he realy wants.,.....no excuses .
2007-01-22 03:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Seeing other guys talking with our lady and flirting can make us a bit jealous.
2007-01-22 03:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of my friends are male, i dont get along to well with females...My husband has female friends and it doesnt bother me...
2007-01-22 03:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋