one of my friend's just told me that her bf was 28 and is married and has a child. i was shocked. she is ONLY 15! though when u look at her, she looks 25. any advice i can give to her? im afraid he's using her for sex, since she is very beautiful.
2007-01-21 19:01:55 · 25 answers · asked by cella<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, it's wrong
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2007-01-21 19:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not only wrong it is against the law. If this man knows she is only 15 he can be arrested for statutory rape , even if he doesn't know he can still go to prison for having sex with a 15 year old. Advise her to wait and enjoy being young and tell the 28 year old that she is only 15. Talk to your parents and get their help if this man is married and has a child he is not looking for a long term relationship with your friend. It can be hard to be a friend but in this situation an adult may be able to help before things get out of hand. Personally if a 28 year old man even looked at my daughter at that age I would be very inclined to hurt him!!!! My daughter is 4 at present. It is illegal for a 28 year old to date a 15 year old.
2007-01-21 19:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by Becky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is VERY wrong on several counts. 1 - she is under-age, so if they are having sex it is considered rape 2. It is wrong for her to have a relationship with someone who is married 3. It is wrong to break up a marriage that includes a child. Many people could help to send this guy to jail - her parents, his wife, you, a teacher, a doctor. What a sad situation!!
2007-01-21 19:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The whole thing sounds like she has a big imagination--good story to tell. But if it is true it is wrong and illegal. he is going to go to jail if he is caught. 15 looks 25--I doubt it--the brain would give it away---did you ever listen to a 15 year old talk???? Endless crap. Just like this story. Tell her you think that's nice---then walk away, the story will change--I guarantee it.
2007-01-21 19:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 15 i dated a 30 year old with a child and boyfriend, she was using me for sex for sure. isnt life grand. but of course im a guy ,but for a girl thats just wrong hehe
2007-01-21 19:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by candyman8042002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn right it's wrong!!! All he wants is sex from her! She is crazy and u need 2 let her know. If she thinks he's going 2 leave his wife she's soooo wrong. Sometimes u just have 2 tell your friends the truth. She needs 2 know.
2007-01-21 19:09:39 · answer #6 · answered by TrayLuvsJay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS WRONG! Teens can't go out with a MARRIED with CHILD and also 28 YEAR OLD!
2007-01-21 19:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats really wrong she needs help if this is her first relationship its gonna be the basis for everything that comes after it so you should talk her out of the situation before she gets too involved.
2007-01-21 19:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if what you are saying has any truth to it he needs to be reported to the police as he is whats called a child molester.Of cause the paedophile is using her for sex dob him in or your just as guilty for allowing it to happen.His wife needs to know because she has a child living in that house with him Oh god I hope its not a little girl.Your friends parents also need to know
2007-01-21 19:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its wrong and you can go to PRISON for it.
Im sorry but the word is paedophile no matter what age she looks. She is still a child.
2007-01-21 19:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by rodandalisonthompson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend might be telling the truth,....if you want to know tell her to show you the guy....and if you want to keep your friendship..dont embarass your friend buy telling the guy he is raping her....but if you want to save your friend...tell the 28 year old guy to kiss your black or white ***..and stop messing with your friend.
2007-01-21 19:06:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋