hi, i am a 24,5' 7" tall, brown hair,compexion guy. I have never been able to date someone. I am an Asian and moved to US last year. I feel so sad abd it many times. many friends of mine have girlfriend and they make love..but i am still a virgin and i hate myself sometimes. what's wrong with me? what does a girl like to have in a guy..i don't know
2007-01-21 18:12:21 · 8 answers · asked by 00900912345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be too hard on yourself. These things can take time and patience. Where are you hanging out? Do you make the effort to introduce yourself to girls you are interested in? Just be yourself and have confidence. Maybe you are meeting the wrong girls. Every girl is different. In general, they want someone who they can have a conversation with about anything. They need attention (don't be possessive and obsessive), compliments (but not too much - then it starts to look fake and dishonest). They enjoy humor and someone that can laugh at themselves. Be a good listener and be respectful. Every girl likes to be treated like a lady, but don't overdo it either..........
2007-01-21 18:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude, you're 24!! And no offense, you're pretty short. Im 5'6 and im 13. But anyways besides that, your pretty young anyways. Most people dont make love till they're 33. Its a proven fact. So wait a while, see what comes your way, but until then, get something to pass the long time. Like an exciting hobby! With those, you could actually meet someone who you would love to date. You never know!! Well I hope this has helped! Good Luck!
2007-01-21 18:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by FriskyPotato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sometimes despise myself too, but you dont have to hate yourself, you just havent found the right woman yet, it will come, she will come, wait for her, in the mean time, improve yourself, learn different skills,learn how to be a gentle man, if women see that you are confident and positive about life, they will see what is hidden inside of you, youre a great man, a great guy, dont ever think that just because youre not getting laid like your friends that you are not good enough, you must learn to love yourself first and learn to enjoy life before you commit into having any relationship, relationship , commitment and sex is not for fun,its a serious thing, serious matter,
youre only 24 love yourself first before you attempt to make another human being depend on you for comfort
2007-01-21 18:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What girls want is confidence, which you seem to be short on. If you find a girl you like, persue her, but don't do so just because you want a girlfriend. But make sure that if you find one, that you don't let her pass you by. Don't be down on yourself for being a virgin; I was one til I was 25, and frankly, I want it back.
2007-01-21 18:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jacob P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you!!!! You shouldn't worry so much. Wouldn't you like to wait until marriage to become intimate? Be strong, there are lots of others like you and proud of there selves!
2007-01-21 18:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by cbutterflyangle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be so hard on yourself
there will probably soon come a day that you meet a wonderful girl
and when it does happen
AND IT WILL
it will be AWESOME
yes even more so i would think , at age 24
2007-01-21 18:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by iammissmess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect. you need to go out and meet people, the right girl will come along, i promise :)
2007-01-21 18:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by demonized 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying.
2007-01-21 18:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by Saahil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋