Ok, I have seriously fallen for a guy who lives in a different country! I cant stop thinking about him n give up sleep to talk to him for like 10hrs straight! Plz help wat should I do???
2007-01-21 18:03:31 · 17 answers · asked by buttafly_biattch 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, I went thru something very similar. All I can recommend is to meet him as fast as you can, see if he's worth the shot. Otherwise you'll lose interest in each other. Keep talking 2 each other but not that much.
2007-01-21 18:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by jonsinher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, long distance relationships are hard. And most of the time doesn't work coz both parties have to give up quite a bit to be together. This includes- time (different time zone& all), not being able to be together, giving up on a relationship where both parties can be with ppl who they can touch and hang out with PLUS it's very difficult to trully get to know each other from so far. I've been in a long dist. relationship and so have few of my friends. And from that experience, i can tell you that if you really like this guy, don't let the distance be the one to stop you. But DO take all this into consideration before you get into this. If you are ready and willing to go down this road, take a chance. But if your not ready to face all this, pull out now and it will save both you and him a lot of heartache.
Good Luck
2007-01-22 02:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you even know him? Did you meet him online? If so, forget him- texting, phone calls, etc can hide SO many things. But if he lived near you and moved away or something, you can try and see if it works but it will be a very big struggle and a very big trust issue. If you can stand it, go right ahead and be with him. But consider how very little you will see each other/little physical contact. If you can live with that, go right ahead! Technology makes the world smaller, after all. Good luck!
2007-01-22 02:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by snowthump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ask such a question??? What in the world is a relationship that is so far away and only on the phone. OOOH I think about him---how cute---God, aren't there any men in your area?? What do you want anyone to say??? Make your mind up on your own. No one can tell you and no one can help you when you come to your senses---10 hours on the phone??? get a job or a hobby
2007-01-22 02:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what country is he and how you can get together with him.
There is nothing wrong with dating others from pysically different locations...the problem is that you won't have a true relationship until you meet physically (not sexually) and get to know each other better.
So, you both should work that out and please be advice do not make any prior commitments until you have met and dated for awhile.
2007-01-22 02:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by Dazanix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be realistic, there are one of two roads to choose:
1. Commit fully: Start a long distance relationship if there is a chance that you could go there or he could come to where you are.
2. Forget fully: Save heartbreak if there is no chance of getting together fully in the future.
2007-01-22 02:09:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
which part do u need help with exactly , if he lives in a different country .....move there
if u cant sleep............... just look at the international calls bill & i'm sure that would help you sleep,
Talking for 10 hours straight refer to above suggestion
Wake up & smell reality for what it is sweets
2007-01-22 02:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a better talking time, try e-mails so you dont have to stay up as late. E-mails take a while to send, so you dont have to stay up late to wait for him to get on IM or call. Or, schedule a meeting time!! Buy a ticket to his country or have him come there. I know it sounds big but, it could help! Good Luck!
2007-01-22 02:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by FriskyPotato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't go to him, try to bring him to you. I have lived in 8 different countries and it's not out of the question if there really is love involved.
2007-01-22 02:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my. i think you are wrong, because even you love him very very very much, you mustn't give up sleep to talk to him. can you think when you are sick? you can't do anything. call him, or may be send him a message.
fallen with a guy very much is a serious problem. because when you lose him, your heart will hurt very much. you can express your fell by giving him surprise may be. be cause it more unforgettable.
2007-01-22 02:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by red boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋