I have a friend who is madly in love with dis guy for the past 4 years nw. As far as I knw, even he loves her madly... but the funniest thing is that both of them has not spoken to each other even once... they haven't confessed their love to each other ( well, both hav probs of their own bcoz of which they can't). and to top everything, they hav not seen each other for the past 2 years nw... so no contacts, no seeing, nothing at all.... but still both r madly in love with each other. sometimes i wonder if this is really love or madness? then again sometimes i wonder abt the power of love.... as long as each trust each other's love...., u dnt hav to even speak to each other to keep the relationship going. wat do u guys think? is dis possible? do u think the relationship wil last? do u think he'vil ever confess his love to her( well, sh is waiting for him to take the first step and hav promised herself dat sh wud never b the firat one to confess!!@!!!!!!!!!!)
2007-01-21 17:51:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not really love!
There has to be some sort of interaction between the two or it is just an infatuation.
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2007-01-21 17:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Love here. They are both in "love" with the fantasy of being in love. They fear that if they open up to each other and become intimate they will find out that they will ultimately have to accept each other's flaws and have to put forth the real effort that goes into the making of a real relationship.
2007-01-21 18:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by Marti1owl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THe only way i can see this heappening is if they heappen to be in the same place at the same time... even then it only might heappen. If they live in diffrent places then he'll never probably find her and confess to it. There's a better chance of him seing someone else and falling in love with them.
2007-01-21 17:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Rikku 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think yes because I am in the same kind of relationship right now. Its hard to believe and understand at times... and not many people will believe it but I do believe it can be possible. Good Luck
2007-01-21 17:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible. Sometimes when we do "talk" to eachother, all we do is open our mouths to try to impress eachother (perfectly normal) but in the long run, you have couples complaining about how much their partner changed and they didnt use to be like that and blah blah blah.........so why is important to talk anyways? Love is FELT.
2007-01-21 17:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,it is possible.I am almost in the same situation eventhough I see him once in a while but I still truely love him.It's hard but....thats love
2007-01-21 18:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by babyface82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so and neither should you dwell in such a fantasy world: it is almost as though you are afraid that reality might penetrate.
2007-01-21 18:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"to let true love remain unspoken is the quickest route to a heavy heart"
2007-01-21 18:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by sue83jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is best in a relationship.
2007-01-21 17:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by johny1punch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES it is very possible.
2007-01-21 17:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋