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Only you know how you feel!!! MY husband and I dated around
around 4 or 5 months and it's been beautiful!! 40 years!! But we made a thousand stupid mistakes because we were so green. You need to talk it all out and especially realize how you feel about each other's families. Goood Luck!! @8-)

2007-01-21 17:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Dovey 7 · 1 0

My husband and I dated for like 3 months when he asked and it only took that long b/c that ring wasnt ready in the 2nd month.. lol.. Weve been together almost 6 years now. If youre ready, youre ready. Length of the relationship means nothing.. If you are seeking our approval then youre not ready but if youre just checking for what people think about it, then I say go for it.. We had a long engagement I guess.. we were engaged for 2 years and 1 day. We moved in together and everything first and I think it helped.
How old are you anyway? I was 18 when he proposed.

2007-01-22 09:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by PenguinsWife 4 · 0 0

There have been many true love stories that lasted a lifetime after knowing each other just a few months. In today's day and age, it may be better to know a little more about the person. Age matters, the older you are (or the other) the more skeletons, baggage and issues. People tend to be very set in their ways when older, independent, and unwilling to change. Not true for everyone, though. Follow your heart.

2007-01-22 02:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ehukai 1 · 0 0

By the number of grammatical and spelling errors in this one questions, I suggest you concentrate on school first.

It should read as follows:

"I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. He asked me to be his wife in June. I said yes. Do you think it is too soon?"

2007-01-22 03:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by Stargatebabe 4 · 1 0

It depends on both of you...your level of maturity to deal with the issues of marriage and how well you know and understand each other.
If you are feeling concerned that it is too early then it is. You need to satisfy yourself (your heart) that the time is right and that you both know each other well enough and understand what each of you want your future to be. When you are confident that you have no questions about each other unanswered then you can get the marriage done.
But follow your gut feelings...most of the time it a sure guide.
Also, if he really loves you and care about your perspective on things he will appreciate your concerns about rushing into things and wait for you to build up the trust in him and help you prepare your mind for marriage.
That will also show his maturity.
So, ensure you address you concerns about rushing into marriage with him and you guys should get to know each other well enough.

2007-01-22 02:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Dazanix 2 · 1 0

It's too soon dear, Don't fret into a new relationship. You will never know a person in a short time, let alone men !!! Think twice or else you will regret !!!
Why are you in a hurry to get married ? Are you pregnant ?

2007-01-22 07:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by Butterfly girl 4 · 0 0

How can you say "yes" to someone that you barely know? No wonder we have such a terrible divorce rate!! You need to date someone for a year or two before you really know them. Have you had any discussions about money, children, religion, in-laws, etc? These become VERY important after you marry.

2007-01-22 01:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy B 5 · 1 0

how old are you? and id say if your old enough live with him first,at least for a year,i moved to a different state met my hub moved in with him just 2 month after meeting but didnt marry him for 2 yrs,its better to share a place for awhile and then later marry when you know its right.plus if it first marriage you both may be too excited to find out what its like and then you find out it takes tons of work and tons of sacrifices to see it through,then your left with a heart break and divorce expenses

2007-01-22 01:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by slyshaunamichelle 2 · 1 0

3 months? That is wayyyyy too soon! Try 3 years.

2007-01-22 16:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by hevs55 2 · 0 0

Waiting can never hurt. If he really loves you, he'll still be around in a few years.

And if you're 21 or under, then DEFINITELY wait a while. Finish school first or work for a while.

2007-01-22 02:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by BeatriceBatten 7 · 1 0

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