I think I'm in love with a good guy friend of mine. He's single, so there's no strings attached. However I honestly don't know what to do, he's said in the past that he just see's me as his friend. Now that we've been friends for over a year, I realize that I really love him. Then recently he told me he loved me, and I'm almost positive he just means as a best friend. (Even though he didn't specify) After all that's what he's said I was.
I love him unconditionally for who he truely is, and I could see us going out...but I don't think he sees the same thing. You'd think he would have told me by now if his feelings for me had changed.
I'm completely stuck, he knows I really like him...What's going on?!
2007-01-21 17:39:34 · 10 answers · asked by Smart_Gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg...i dunno wat i'd do if i was u....but love develops.....when a guy knows u appreciate him as a love, he will soon develope his feelings for u,.....its kinda true for most humans.....and im telling u, it sounds like he does have feelings for u, at least a little....so, go for it,....love will find its way of expressing it when the time comes....omg, i wish i was u....
2007-01-21 17:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by sue83jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he doesnt, if he would then he wouldnt even take more than 5months.usually it happens but if he is a kind a shy guy then he must be waiting for ur signals-i mean give him some hints that u lovehim.u can ask him some question in a sense supposoe u r playing,for example:" ask him if u r to take a person to a lonely island who would it be?"[this is the question which gave me my life]do these things if u found possitivereactions then ask him about going out as u two r best friends dont hesitate totell him wat u feel.
2007-01-22 01:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by StylishT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm in almost the same situation, except I've done my best not to tell him or make it obvious.
Treat him like your best friend. That's why he loves you as though you are his sister. Love him platonically on the outside and romantically on the inside. Deny it.
Unless you want to lose him as a friend.
2007-01-22 01:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure if he feels the same way as you he will tell you.
I admire you for the guts you had to tell him u actually like him!
I am worse off than you are. haha :P Had been stuck in the same position for 4 yrs now!
2007-01-22 01:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by th1608 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he liked u like that maybe he is going through the same thing you are. i mean you love him but don't know how to tell him and just think whatt if he loves you and dont know how to tell you. wha yuo should do is ask him like out to eat or ask him to come over to your house and ask him if he would wanna take your relationship or your friendship to the next level and if he asked what the next level is just go out and say i like him more than a friend.
2007-01-22 01:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by bridget s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you had asked him right then and there what he ment by that.....now, you have been torturing you self to find the meaning behind it.
Why don;t you just tell him...."I think my feelings for you are deeper than freindship, so you need to know if he feels the same..." Thats it..
2007-01-22 01:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by StopPanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows for certain that you are in love with him, something would have happened by now if he wanted it to.
2007-01-22 01:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont expect and hope for it unless he never tells you that he loves you more than just a bestfriend. guys actions can be very deceiving, so for us girls to stay away from heartaches, never expect anything unless he tells you so.
2007-01-22 01:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by ---q.ty pie--- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and tell him how you really feel and ask him his side to it
2007-01-22 01:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by DreamsOfCityLife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no idea what you're talking about. Oh and thanks for the points.
2007-01-22 01:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋