I used to look for christian men to date but found them to be extremely judgmental and wimpy. I haven't met one yet who is capable of loving another man's child yet he expects God to love him. I've also found that christian men want a virgin yet they find some poor girl to lose their virginity to so when they do get married they don't look so inexperienced in bed. Why aren't there any real men left in this world?
2007-01-21 17:38:35 · 24 answers · asked by goturanswer 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It's unfortunate you have met the wrong men. There are plenty of good Christian men out there who don't judge a woman based on her past or current situation, but on the quality of woman she is. Whether a woman is a virgin or not should definitely not be the kill switch on any relationship, and if she/he has a child, then it could be an amazing opportunity. Two of my better friends growing up married women with three children, and have taken the responsibility seriously and are very happy. So, I think good men are out there, but you just need to find em'. Good luck.
2007-01-22 04:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by straightup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of real men left...you are just looking in the wrong group.
I will be honest about how I feel about dating a woman with a child. Personally, I couldn't do it. It has nothing to do with me not being able to love another man's child. It is because I can hardly even take care of myself, and I certainly am not capable of helping raise a child. I don't want kids at ALL....EVER, it has nothing to do with the fact that the woman has a child with another man or is not a virgin
(Then again, I'm not a Christian, so I can't speak for their justifications)
2007-01-21 17:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most real men I know have been married to the same woman for the last 15 or 20 years and plan on maintaining that situation.
The rest of the real men have been put off by a serious lack of real women.
That doesn't leave too much for nice, slightly more mature women who've already experienced a few bad breaks in life.
2007-01-21 18:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you religious??? look at the fact miss; stop living your life by what an est tells you to do ..there are plenty of men out that who dont care how many people you've slept with they just are not fundamental christens. And yes most real bad *** men your looking for dont find a need for a god so start going to rock concerts or something.
2007-01-21 17:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not always true. The problem here is that born again Christian men who got saved at a very young age are not allowed to date or marry divorced women or women who already have children because they were already with another man and that man is considered to be their husband. It is considered adultery. I am a divorced and married again woman and my husband is a Christian who has never been married before he married me and I do have children from my previous marriage. Neither of us were saved when we got married and I was practicing wicca at the time. We both are born again Christians now and just got saved this last year. This is why you are having the problems with some Christian men.
2007-01-21 17:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by Dakota Lynn Takes Gun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sturdy, yet all that's borrowed from somewhat some gnostic texts that existed till now islam, no longer something new. till the quran recognises as lord and saviour it would not count quantity for a lot. The quran incorrectly calls Mary the daughter of Aaron the brother of Moses ! maybe you're able to desire to study the Gospels for the fact, the quran is the lone testimony of a deluded bedouin.
2016-11-26 01:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by riddle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm real, but I'm taken. I gots me a good little christian girlfriend who is 19 years old (I'm 22) and she's far from a virgin. I never thought that to be the biggest issue though.
Whether a girl is a virgin or not, I never really care about that. I usually care about her, not sex.
2007-01-21 17:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
they don't... they're all secretly cheating on their virgin fiance with their ex-girl friend by having hot office room sex. Or something to that effect.... (not my story thank the gods). But if they truley are Christian they will be judgmental and difficult to deal with. And there are real men left in this world... the ones that escaped the grasp of the brainwashing bible are stuck someone where inbetween puberty and drugs.
2007-01-21 17:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by Mirror 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
There are real men in the world. You just seem to get involved with the losers. A real man wouldn't care one way or another provided she hasn't been permiscuous.
2007-01-21 17:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a Christian and would accept a non virgin with a child. I would love the child like my own! Sorry your experience has been unfruitful so far. G-d has a man for you if its on your heart. He will give your hearts desire.
You should listen to Randy Travis sing "Raise Him up"
Blessings
David
2007-01-21 17:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋