mainly an ex. he dumped me after 2 years together and already his little thing has a picture of them both on her myspace page talking about how much they love each other. i stood by him when he was in jail and through eerything. i hate him and her. i feel so jealous and i don't know what to do. they say u can only get over it by finding someone new but i'm not quite there yet. how can i do this without going crazy?
2007-01-21 17:38:25 · 7 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I had the same thing happen to me, with my boyfriend, and my best friend, I just basically told him and her to stay away from me, and I found out that hanging out with other friends made me feel better, and tried hard to find other things to do, and keep my mind off of them. Try and stay away from hers and his myspace, I know its hard, but it will get better I promise. Don't rush anything, if you don't want a relationship right now, don't do it, I know some people say revenge is the way, but it only makes it worse, trust me I did it, and it was awful.
2007-01-21 17:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by MARCIA M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting someone new is not going to help you get over it, it's only going to remind you of this and make you hurt more.
The best thing to do, in my opinion, is to cut everything that links you to him, memories and so on. At least for now, during the healing process. Dont think about the good times, think of the bad times.
Try to redirect all that anger towards something positive, dancing lessons, school, work out. Working out is the best medice, you'll feel so much better. And stop looking at the picture lol all that's doing is torturing you even more.
2007-01-21 18:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this one is going to hurt for awhile.... But hating people is destructive and in the end all it does is hurt you... I dont think moving on with another guy is the solution, all that will do is hurt more people because you are not ready.... Jealousy is such an ugly emotion, this isnt critisicm but the truth... I was jealous of this girl for like a year because deadset everything I wanted for myself and my happiness and things I worked hard for she got... In the end I realised it just made me feel like **** and I took a step back and her life is **** it really is! All you can do to let out frustration, punch pillows, write in a journal or blog, talk to friends, play sport, whatever just let it out (without hurting anyone though)... Good luck to you, I am going through my own heartache =)
2007-01-21 18:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by buttafly_biattch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is like this and you better accept that fact now. You get dumped, and sometimes it happens more than once for various reasons. Sometimes, YOU do the dumping. If this dude was in jail at one point you are lucky to be rid of him. If you cannot get past this seek professional counseling.
2007-01-21 17:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which idiot said you have to find someone else to get over it?????
There are 5 stages of grief that you need to go through. You can find then on the web by typing 5 stages of grief. This way you will know at what stage you are at and why you are feeling the way you do.....Its all normal.........
2007-01-21 18:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Sarah, i'm so sorry you're dealing with this returned! No, i won't be able to say which you're over reacting because of the fact a kiss is a kiss and that i could hate it if i got here upon my husband had kissed yet another woman! The helpful element is that, he got here to WILLINGLY and admitted what got here approximately 2 12 months'S in the past, meaning, he has been harmless on account that then, we are hoping:D i won't be able to see why you mustn't telephone this different woman- in spite of everything, you're no longer likely to be chatting together with her abusive husband, yet her. you are able to say that this has injury you very a lot and you're helpful that if she have been in love together with her husband, she could experience the comparable. i could gain this and you're able to be polite approximately it. This additionally could be a sort of closure for you; she could experience sorry approximately what she did. remarkable now, you're able to desire to focus on the helpful aspects that your hubby does love you very a lot and pray to Jehovah jointly, to ask for the flexibility to recover from this soreness. i'm right here in case you desire to talk. Your sis Suzanne
2016-11-26 01:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by riddle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come down,relax.dont do anything especially when you are still angry with them because if you do it will not be good and this may destroy your which will give your opponents another opportunity to mock you.Dont rush in to another relationship yet because it is more likely that it happen again.take your time,compose your self,put your pieces together and continue with life.Remember whatever happens to you,you still have alife to live.
2007-01-21 18:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by moe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋