My Man is on myspace, I barely have a page, not even any pictures. But his is all fixed up with videos, pics and music. He's got like 200 friends and most of them females. Some are actual relatives but there is this one female that left him a comment that was ...I dunno Here I copy and pasted it!
"""Hey Sexy Love...How are you? "FRIEND" do me a favor When you get a chance call me....LOL I'm just playing with you, You and I both know that your more than my "friend"...I Love you Daddy... """"
WTf??
2007-01-21 17:30:36 · 28 answers · asked by GoldenLocs 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
can you create a profile on myspace without him knowing it is you???Send him messages asking him too hook up with you, Try to catch him in the act, then at least you know whether he is a dog or not.
2007-01-21 17:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Bridgette B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I've been on myspace for a few months and I have come to realize all it is is a free dating website. Sometimes people joke like that, so you can't be too sure. I would definitely watch him...Why don't you find out where she is from...If she's from the same place you and your guy are from, then that means he has access to see her and could very well be messing with her.
2007-01-22 01:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm telling you, these internet sites are nothing but trouble. Your best bet is to end it now. Get out before it gets any deeper. He is playing you and the other 200. If he is not willing to give up the account on my space, then he is not fully committed to you. Yes, he can have friends, but that just pushes it over the line.
2007-01-22 01:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by tamlovinlife2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two options, she is either a "friend with benefits" or she is stalking him. Sometimes after a little flirtation people get the wrong idea and have trouble letting go. Your third option is that it is an almost innocent game they are playing. (these usually end in cheating anyway)
I would proceed with caution both in terms of accusing him, and believing his explanation. Go digging for more dirt. He may be totally innocent or he may a rat.
Good luck.
2007-01-22 01:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ang H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind your man looking/participating in porn... myspace is trouble... and porn is really addictive. Guys that are addicted become really good at lying... so even if you were to ask him upfront whether he was into what you think he is into... he is probably so good at lying even you couldn't tell. You deserve better. But be careful - you don't want to throw a good one away even if there are tons of fish in the sea.
2007-01-22 01:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by mdawne2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, sure so us females are known for over-reacting but boy does that sound more than suspicious to me! What you have got here - is trouble - and you may have caught it in its act. I think you SHOULD be worried. Does this, 'man' of yours know you have read/seen this comment?
2007-01-22 01:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, put him to stepping if he can't give you a valid reason why she said that. Putting friend in quotes sounds like that's what they would tell others they are, but in reality are messing around. For example, if you say something about it, he's gonna say she's just a "friend".
Plus, he must have the girl's number for her to be saying to call her.
Also check her comments to see if he's been silly enough to write something incrimidating to her :)
2007-01-22 01:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by mycountryfamily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very concerned because that was not a friendly comment. However, please take into account that some women will start things just to infuriate a gf. She may just be playing around to get you angry if she knows you're involved with him. Ask him about it and go from there but trust you instinct...
2007-01-22 01:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WTF is right.... How can you build a relationship with someone who is advertising himself online. What did he say back to her...do they converse or as this an unsolicited message to him...I wish my husband did try to pull some stuff like this...I would send him a message from my username....divorce!
This is what you do if you want to find out for sure...have a friend...someone he doesn't know..try and converse with him and see what he does. If he passes..keep him and say nothing...if he fails..drop him... but don't mention the friend.
2007-01-22 01:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by aprildin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would definitely ask him....WTF is this comment all about!?! Its seems to me like hes having a little too much fun with this girl, and not being honest with you. If I were you I'd have a serious talk with him!!!
2007-01-22 01:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by michelles_sfa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋