I'm going insane because I can't be with this girl....What do I do??!?

Question

I met a girl last month during christmas vacation and I can't stop thinking about her. She lives too far away from me though so I know it just isn't going to work. Our parents are good friends but it was the first time I met her.

It's driving me nuts. There's so many other girls I know that I used to like before meeting her but now I could care less about them all because I met her. It's killing me because I know it's not feasible for me to be with this girl at the moment but I can't stop thinking about her. There hasn't been a day where I haven't thought about her since.....Will this feeling ever go away?

Answer 1

Ahh yes, this is known as the "I want the one I can't have" syndrome. Torturous but temporary, in my opinion. You'll find someone else soon enough.

Answer 2

Well, I know how you feel. I exact same thing happen to me. But is still thinking of him also. Like we lived so far away from each other and I meet him in July and ever since I can't stop thinking of him!!!

Am sorry to say this, but you will probably not get over it until you meet her again or something. It's a challenge for me to see him, he's in a different city and two years older than me also I wish I know what to do too.

GOOD luck on your crush and best wishes to you for you and the girl!
P.S. (am 16) and the boy I really like are TWO years older than me!!!

Answer 3

Looks as if you are still a young kid.What is your age?it is only a crush which will go away slowly.

In the lighter vein, everybody goes mad after getting married anyway so you are not into any big fix even if u r unmarried to that girl.

Answer 4

Yes, it will go away. What you can do is go out with your friends and have fun. As long as you're enjoying yourself, you shouldn't worry about the girl. Maybe one day a relationship between you two will be possible, but you said yourself that at the moment it isn't. Don't let yourself dwell on it or you'll only be miserable.