dude if u have money they will flock to you but, ask God to show u truth instead of a shallow problem like that
2007-01-21 15:06:00
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answered by Anonymous
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The odds are against you. I answered a similar question only recently (and was voted best answer) about whether someone's body type is more important than their personality when it comes to relationships, and I feel that the same answer applies here.
Personality definately counts and is very important, however it will only get you 75% of the way. Proof of this lies in the fact that if personality really did count for everything, all of the world's Star trek nerds would have girlfriends and it would be the "Muscle Marys" that were the virgins instead of the other way around.
My advice to you is as follows:
01 - Improve your personality to become the best possible person that you can be.
02 - Get fit. Join a gym if need be.
03 - Ditch the science-fiction. A girl will NEVER date a guy who is any kind of sci-fi fan.
Sorry to appear so negative, but unfortunately this is how today's world operates.
2007-01-21 15:22:46
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answered by Anonymous
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At first glance, I do not go for the "ugly" guys. But..once I get to know them, I can't get enough of them...Most of them are really funny (defense mechanism???) and I absolutely love guys that can make me laugh. And if they're SMART, that's a good plus. I need to be able to relate to them on my level of intelligence...Meaning, I don't want to date a guy who thinks they can actually buy apples at the Apple store (trust me, there are some people out there that do).
If you do think you're ugly, then none of us are going to convince you otherwise and don't try to get sympathy from others around you (really, only girls try to do that, I'll admit)...Hope that you have--I'm mean KNOW that you have a great personality that will win a girl over. Use it. Looks might be the first thing she sees, but it's your personality that she hears.
Hope that helped.
2007-01-21 15:15:37
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answered by Kitty Kat 2
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First off, I laughed my butt off when I saw this question! Not that I am laughing at you but because of my current situation. Ok, so the guy that I have feelings for is not the best looking guy. What appealed to me was his personality. OMG he makes me laugh so hard! That's the most attractive thing I see in guys. Sense of humor and personality. Yeah sometimes it works if they look great but looks only go so far. If it's the right girl, she'll go for the guy no matter what.
2007-01-21 15:07:40
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answered by Anonymous
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nicely, lovable men may be heading off lovable ladies.. they have probable already had relatively some journey being with them and decide to handle greater 'general' women. And 'no longer so lovable' men might have an interest in lovable ladies using fact they don't understand greater advantageous yet ;). I recommend, i'm sorry to declare, yet there are not many lovable women who're right down to earth. maximum lovable women have been spoiled by using their dad and mom, and that they have got an excellent experience of unearned entitlement. they have come to assume to be taken care of especially techniques by using particular human beings and of their eyes, the international is already lined up in some hierarchy that purely exists of their minds. have you ever examine the craigslist classified ads that say something like 'amazingly lovable female. we could pass on a trip to South usa, you pay.' the international does not artwork like that. using fact maximum men, even the 'lovable' ones could artwork their way up interior the international they probable don't sense that very same experience of entitlement as 'lovable women'. And hence, do no longer become attentive to with that way of thinking or purchase into it. of direction, no longer all women are this way, yet using fact many are, it spoils the image for each guy or woman.
2016-10-31 23:17:04
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answered by bonanno 4
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It depends on the girl. Some people feel that "beauty lies within" and that "beauty is only skin deep"...
The other thing is, you have to ask yourself the same question. Are you only going after hot girls? Or would you consider dating someone more plain?
Quite often, beautiful people have a superiority complex... so that might have a significant bearing on your success (or lack of) in the dating world.
2007-01-21 15:08:46
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answered by Mandy P 3
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yes a girl will go out with an ugly guy most girls look for steady relationship and fun they see what kind of person you are you need to change how you feel about yourself because no one is ugly only when you make yourself one.
2007-01-21 15:11:25
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answered by MSG 2
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Its the Inside of a man not the outside She'll date or marry a Geeky-Nerd or a fat-slob, or Drunken-loser which definition of Ugly do you refer to, because all the woman i know loves the Most ugliest Of Guys.
Is that the right answer.
2007-01-21 15:10:49
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answered by tfoley5000 7
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Yes I would. To each his own, that means that everybody is attracted to different looks, personalities, and certain features. I don't think my sis has ever thought any guy I've dated was cute. They've all been kind of plain i guess, but hot to me.
2007-01-21 15:13:03
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answered by Tasha 4
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I'd rather have a "plain" nice guy than a good looking jerk. If a guy is nice and has an appealing personality, that shines through. I love that.
2007-01-21 15:06:44
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answered by Abby 5
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Yes I would. But if you are referring to yourself I wouldn't go out with a guy who considers himself ugly. Confidence is important. Putting yourself down isn't attractive. If you think of yourself as ugly, thats how women will see you.
2007-01-21 15:07:27
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answered by Love <3 3
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