what is the feeling of being lonley?

Question

and what do you do to get over it?

Answer 1

Usually when I start to feel lonely and depressed, I'm in bed trying to fall asleep. But then I sprawl out and realize that at the end of the day, I'm happy to have my own bed. I know that you've heard this before but try to keep yourself busy. You'll develop new hobbies and interests. It'll get better over time.

Answer 2

Being lonely hurts like hell. Thats why i think so many people are desperate for a bf, or gf. Love Lonely i think is very different than the general lonely. Love Lonely is almost impossible to get through. Although you may have a lot of good friends, they all tell you the same thing, (S)he is not the guy/girl for you. You'll find him/her eventually. Although inside it feels like the pain of a thousand searing pokers piercing your heart. It feels like you'll never find him/her. The one got away. You want to get back out there but just like the Jeckyl/Hyde song "The past is holding me, keeping Life at bay, you wander lost in yesterday, wanting to fly, but scared to try." the only way to get through it is time. You need to have faith that soon another guy or girl will come around, one that will take your heart, and cherish it. someone who wont shut you down without giving it a go. Someone who won't say you are such a wonderful person, but just not the one for me. Time is the only cure.

Answer 3

It's awful to feel lonely. It's basically the worst feeling the world. It sucks to know that you are all alone while the one person that you truely care about is out with another girl having fun and you are not that girl. It's hard I mean sometimes you spend your times crying wishing that you weren't all alone. You just have to keep your self occupied with things that you like such as music and movies. You also have to realize that although you may feel alone at times you always have your family and friends even if they aren't there to spend time with you all the time.

Answer 4

Feeling lonely sucks. You just have to remember that there are people who care, but I think that all girls have those days. I have a lot, and seemingly for no reason. If you ever wanna talk, let me know. The only thing that gets me over it, is to wait until a new day.

Answer 5

a lonely feeling is when you feel like there's nobody in this world that cares about you. you feel like you have no friends or family or anyone that you can talk to or enough people to talk to. if you're feeling that way, i'm sorry. i guess you should just get out there to those social events and be yourself. don't care what others think. or go hiking and have a great time enjoying the outdoors =D

Answer 6

the feeling of being lonely is that feeling that no one cares about you or wants to hang out with you--you feel like "well, what do I do now?" You crave other humans (or animals--they take away the loneliness too!).

well, branch out and try to find some new people to hang out with. use it as your chance to create a life that you have desired--choose the RIGHT people though, not just any ole person out of desperation. i am going through it right now. lots of silence and being alone. i am kind of enjoying it though---its been a good time for me to get things done and learn about myself.

Answer 7

girl i know what your going thru. im just getting over that fact. depends on your situation. if you push people away or you dont put your self out there. i did both. and i got to the point of severe depression. Best thing to do is put yourself out there. let people know what your made of. Do what you enjoy doing and put your self in situations wher eyou can meet or be with other people that make you happy. and for finding someone to love in an intimate way you just gotta keep going and not give up. cuz theres someone out there for everyone! trust me! most likely someone will find you when your least expecting it. but best thing, Put yourself out there and surround yoru self with others. eventually if you put you mind set to do something (like get over lonely ness) you will get over it all in due time. :o)

Answer 8

I'm sorry you're going through that. It's always good to find something that interests you and go somewhere where you can meet people with that same interest. Like if you like to work out, go to a gym to make friends by using your hobbie in common as a conversation topic. Good luck!

Answer 9

Doesn't meant that I need bf/gf to be happy. Being alone is not a bad thing as I could concentrate on something that is meaningfull. Like focusing on my career, study, hobbies and etc.

Answer 10

Both of you girls need to meditate (do a little research) but basically you clear your minds of all thoughts and emotions its like hitting the restart button on your computer it brings such a feeling of relief. I do this on a daily basis.