should I tell I like him???

Question

there is this majot cutie at school, and i've been crushing on him for a while now. I really want him to know, but i'm to scared....my friend is having a vday party and she is setting me up with him. I'm kinda happy, but i was wondering if i should tell him. Do you guys, have any advice on the approach I should use if i tell him? Or if i should tell him? or shouldn't I?

Answer 1

Angel,

Just be your normal self by all means. Get to know him by asking him questions about his likes and dislikes. You may find that you have a lot in common and go on from there, or....... you may find it was all an illusion on your part and you two have almost nothing in common that would lead to a good relationship. Then you can ditch him with no hard feelings. Just do not lead him on. Like I said, just be your natural curious self! It is in both your best interests to do so.

Answer 2

my boyfriend crushed on me (or "stalked" :P me,as he put it) for a LONG time before he was actually brave enough to ask me out. But if he never found that courage, we wouldn't be about to celebrate the first year anniversary of our relationship. So i say go for it. If you're too shy, maybe you could pass him a note or have a friend pass him a note or talk to him for you, but talking to him face-to-face would probably be best. Sadly, as in everything in life,there are no guarantees. Sometimes things don't work out, but you'll never know unless you try. And though rejection hurts (trust me, i know), anything is better than someday wondering what could've been. "Hearts often get broken by words left unspoken"

Answer 3

Personally, I would have been allot better off if the women that I have had in my life would have just told me what they were really thinking.

That being said.... This boy, is he a school star like the quarterback? If he is and you are a band geek, you could be setting yourself for some pain.

Answer 4

for the benefit of "just ME" the girl who said we guys are all selfish jerks, sorry to tell her we are not all like that. however i remeber what worked on me when i was around age 15 (18years ago now)
A girl i fancied since i was old enough to notice girls (romantically if you like) approched me during a scienc class we shared together, the lesson was on making peanut butter, i do not like peanut butter and i was so distracted that i learned nothing that day except that the girl liked me like i liked her, and i was shoked and happy. she was my first and i think of her every day.
back to what worked, as i said we wer both in the classroom, picture the scene the teachers desk had a row of benches lined up end to end infront and directly connected to it.
i was leaning over the desks sprawled with my legs on the tables, the girl came from the back of the class and started rubbing my leg she put her hand up under my trouser leg (pants leg i think the american term is for the garment) anyway we got talking and went on a first dat that lunchtime or was it the next day either way i had a great time and i hope she did as well.

however the story is not all a happy one. on the last day of school i failed to clean out my locker and left her number in an address book in the locker, a few other events took place over that summer and i ultimately ended up losing contact with her altogether. which looking back now where my life is i see it as the best for her though as i said i still think about her and miss her every single day of my life.

but as for you. tell him how you feel, make your intentions clear to him. do not use body language or visual clues as a rule guys do not pick up on them. If you do not make it clear and never tell him how you feel you will always wonder what if..?
but at least if you give it a try and then he does turn out to be jerk then at least you know.
just hope he is not a jerk. but prepare for the worst and you will be upset but not heartbroken should your worst fears be realised.


just one of lifes many problems romance and the do you tell someone how you feel. the answer should always be yes tell them, but alway prepare your self for that rejection when it comes as 99% of all approaches end in failure.

so good luck, and remember he may be the one, or he may be the one right now or nothing at all. you have to take the chance to find out, but saying all that providing you are both the same age and preferably over 18. however speaking as aguy, hormones are still raging and guys under 30 tend to be changing girl friends one or twice a week on average, so be warned and be friends with the guy for months before taking the friendship to lovers if you want to keep him and keep his respect.

take care.

Answer 5

Just tell him. The worst thing that can happen is that he will let you know that the feeling's not mutual. It'll sting a little at first, but at least then you won't have to waste your time on him, and focus on someone else!

Answer 6

im telling you from a personal experience--- letting the guy know you lovfe him can work- BUT------ dont come on too strong --- that would creep him out the most--- unless he likes creeps :S but that would be such a turn off :P ---- lmao! im tired :( ---- keep your head high and gud luck :P x.

Answer 7

GUYS LOVE IT WHEN A GIRL THEY LIKE COMES UP TO THEM AND KISSES OR ASKED THEM OUT.


ITS SUCH A RELIEF.]

Guys are very stressed when they like someone, far worse then you despirately wantingt to say theright thing to get the girls to like them but no idea hat to say or do as mind goes blank and thinking they have no chance.


Odds are girls before not only turned them down, but stopped being mates before even took away mates before.


So very weary of asking her out as a girlfirend.


so its like phew Im not going to get executed.



No to mention very sex if girl comes on to them with no ambiguity ...


GUYS HAVE NO IDEA when it girlie signs, hints, signals short of stripping off and kissing them all over.

So ask him out to say the cinema ... during the day or quiet time so you get a row to yourself pref at the back so he can put his arm around you and risk touching your boob to see if you like him and want to kiss him.

Let him or snuggle into to him to encourage him.

Or pick a scarey movie so you can pretend to be ccared and ask him to hold you close (oldest trick in the book that only suilly guy will think its his idea)


Or if still scared put you arm around him (ie permission.)


As he does not want you to think hes a perve only wanting to grope you...


Guys need to know the girl wants to be kisses and felt up and seen that way by them as they are fed the idea that they are bad for wanting to be close to a girl.



Also this stuff helps...any excuse to get touchy... you with him and him with you...

Ie something sliped down your back or bra strap caught can he sort it out.

Needing lotion rubbed on on back, maybe front too.

Help playing pool/bowling etc.

Would he like to come with you... bikini shopping?

Then go swimming with said bikini

Playing nervous... ie you run hand up his leg or up arm then own asking... are you nervous...(nervous or yes means stop) when its your turn... for get the words to stop till feeling your boobs then go nose to nose and kiss him

Answer 8

noooooooooooo because EVERY EVRY EVERY guy turns out to be a selfish *** hole in the END! I swear! IT ISNT WORTH IT