I really like this guy. Before break we spoke so much and not to mention flirted constantly. But now its just hi and bye and sometimes more if i initiate the conversation. I do catch him looking at me but how come we just stopped. I was so convinced he was gonna ask me out.
2007-01-21 14:53:24 · 17 answers · asked by Chimmy C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes kinda shy but i just KNEW he liked me. he told one of my friends and they passed the news on.
2007-01-21 15:01:37 · update #1
ask him out
2007-01-21 14:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Melisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so guys are really unpredictable!!!! (as I'm sure us girls can be too)
so how long was the break??? and after you spend time away from someone you normally go back over everything that has happened and work out if it was a good thing or not.
he might also be feeling like he doesn't know where he stands with you.
you should sit down and talk to him and just find out what he thinks.
the last thing you want to is ask him out and find out that he is with someone else or that he just isn't interested.
besides maybe it was just a bit of fun.
2007-01-21 23:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jodie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When that means he thinks there is something wrong with you. Most likely your "soon-to-be-boyfriend-"hopefully" found something out about you, but he has an insequrity himself. hes trying to hide his insequrity. best thing to do is try to ignore him for a day or two. then walk up to him saying hey. then say you were out with someone last night and you enjoyed it. see if he gets jealous if so yes its an insequrity if not then say but i kept thinkg about some other person. Casually talk to him every now and then and when you feel its the right time engage in a question asking about his insequirty listing one of your own. that usually always works.
2007-01-21 23:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by Person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thought you were going out with someone else. You will never really know what is on his mind unless you do something about it. You can make the move and start to break the ice. Brfriend him, and after the acquiaintance stage, eventually you'll knw what is on his mind regarding that matter...
2007-01-21 22:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by maldita_mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight forward w/ him. If he doesn't like you that way you can stop thinking so much of him.
If he has the same feelings 4 u things can really take off.
If u don't say anything nothing will happen.
Hay you've got nothing to loose.
2007-01-21 23:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that he has problems or something like that, u should go talk to him and then try to make him feel better and make him comfortable with you and then ask him if he would wanna go out with u somewhere and then someday if you guys keep in touch then ask him out, ok well bye?
2007-01-21 23:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes guys get shy because they always feel they always have to do the asking. if you really like him i would say go for it. i mean it doesn't have to seem like a date. ask him as a friend first and see how he reacts.
good luck and remember--guys are stupid. sometimes i really think it is embedded in their genetic makeup.
2007-01-21 22:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a number of reasons why, he ether doesn't like you anymore or he thinks that you don't like him. try talking to him like you did before break. sadly, he could like someone else now and not want to hurt you. good luck with him!
2007-01-21 23:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by teresa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's got things on his mind and is not feeling very talkative. Ask him out.
2007-01-21 22:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on. he's playing a game with you.
but if you really want to get his attention ... play it right back. see how long it takes for him to come talk to you. and when he does act indifferent ... just the same way he is doing to you.
2007-01-21 22:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by toshoa76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thought you flirted a little too much and it frightened him away.
2007-01-21 22:58:22 · answer #11 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋