i think about her all the time, i dream about her, i like her so much but she kinda likes being friends and today she told me she might go out w this other guy that she likes. i dont know what to say. i asked her to go to the mall and she wanted to and she wants to go to the movies. but she only considers me a friend. should i tell her i like her or not . or just try to b friends and hang out but then im still stuck w the fact that i like her so much and its like all i think about. idk. should i just look for another girl so it will take my mind off her. HELP. and im 14 ive known her since i was 11 in sixth grade now were in 9th.. please help me
2007-01-21 14:53:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes 14..........
2007-01-21 15:12:19 · update #1
well ummm heres your options....
you can stay being good friends with her cuz you dont want your friendship to end by telling her that you like her. Cuz if that doesnt work out then you 2 are going to feel awk around each other.
you can tell her how you feel, but if someting bad happens then you have to not be all awk about it. Being friends isnt so bad. I mean you still get to be with her. The only bad thing is that you cant express your feeling towards her. But that is ok. And looking for other girls doesnt really help that much. But you are more than welcom to do that. Just go with what you think is the right thing to do.
2007-01-21 15:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by JK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you've got it baaaad!!! LOL, you really like this chick!
Ok, I know that when I was that age, I use to say around guys that I liked, "Oh yeah, so-and-so asked me out so I think we are going to go see a movie and stuff..." just so I could see how they reacted. Maybe she likes you too and is playing games or else she really does see you as a friend because she hasn't known you as anything but. I think you should tell her when you feel good and ready. Yeah it'll be hard and scary but hey, you're only 14! There's plenty of scarier things out there.
2007-01-21 15:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You havent told how old she is. Assuming shes as old as you are.. you both have a lot of time to decide if you two were to stay together forever. Dont rush into this. Give her time and space and remain friends without pushing your feelings too much. She is bound to stay friends and one day realize your true feelings for her!
good luck
2007-01-21 14:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by majji427 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to be monogamous and evidently, dedicated :D He ought to need to get married and performance a baby/s...yet no more suitable than 2 with any success haha. i appreciate at the same time as he's sensible and robust at math/with pcs and he needs to love videogames and delight in anime/manga and under no circumstances be too jealous and delight in my mind-blowing guitar-playing because it fee 1000's of money over the years to income and im truly proud -_- and he has to also delight in that i'm a good artist and really resourceful/an rather good practice dinner... If he's materialistic it gained't workout recurring tho...I under no circumstances look to loaf round with materialistic adult adult males in any case, yet nonetheless... bodily, i love darkish hair and darkish eyes. oh and if he can instruct his thoughts round me it really is effective...my boyfriend has cried infront of me previously and it made me unhappy, yet i become satisfied he felt that delicate round me ^^ So yea :D
2016-10-15 22:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by charis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you asked her to go mall with you. That already proven she fancy's you and yet. The reason shey telling bout that other guy perhaps its a way to make you to quickly tell her that you fancy her and etc.
2007-01-21 14:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk. your the second guy in her life as of now. you could go ahead and try to tell her but theres two outcomes of that. a) she sees you in a different light and as a potential bf b) finds being around is extreemly awkward because of ur feelings for her.
2007-01-21 14:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by Chimmy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd tell her. what is the worst that could happen she could say she doesn't like you and then you'd still b friends. give it a shot and if it doesn't work move along.
2007-01-21 15:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her how you really feel and maybe she'll feel the same way.
2007-01-21 14:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by Joseph M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk her and tell her how you feel.
Good Luck
2007-01-21 14:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋