2007-01-21 14:18:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hope so, because one, that might be great sex but what if I want more in the way of a companion for life, then not just a one night stand that might be heartbreaking to me in the long run. Second, This might mean that she is unsure about herself and she thinks the only way that she can be loved is on the outside. This is what I call leaving your heart out on your sleeve and woman this is a very good way to have no value, no respect and no future husband in the future. I will tell you what you should be looking for guys and what you woman should follow up on to have your respect back: Try following my 5 biblical principles for finding your soul mate: Ask yourself:
1. Does she love you for who you are (inside first than out)? The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
2. Does she honor you? Will she do things just to make you happy? Will she try some of the things you are interested in or maybe shares some of the same interests and hobbies? The Bible says:
* “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:10
3. Cherishes your body, mind and soul? Doesn't go to far on these things until your ready? The Bible says: * “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet Spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3-4
4. You trust her to the fullest? She is your best friend and you are hers? The Bible Says: * “ Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:7
5. You communicate well? She understands you like he could be your twin? The Bible says: * “ Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29
To Sum it up: Stick to 1. Love 2. Honor 3. Cherish 4. Trust 5. Communication and I promise if your relationship is based on these things you will know what its like to find true love and have the respect! And Yes! I have used my principles myself and I am convinced I have found my soul mate! But to find her I also used these same principles to weed out my soul mate from the relationships that just didn't work. In addition, letting God and Jesus Christ lead your heart, mind, body and soul also aid in the weeding process. God Bless!
2007-01-21 14:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would a guy lose respect for a woman if she has sex with him at their first meeting? After all, he is also having sex at their first meeting. So, unless he is a total hypocrite, he can't very well point the finger at her, can he.
2007-01-21 14:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Any sane right minded bloke ( i know they"re hard to find) will not because it takes two to tango and obviously you both want this to happen. If anything it gets that part of the awkwardness of a new relationship over and you can build and flourish from there
2007-01-21 14:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by Travo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respect a girl the most for being true to herself, and getting what she wants in life- if at that moment, it happens to be choosing to get intimate with me, thats great- I prefer that honesty, confidence and maturity over the artificial version of you know it will happen in 3dates/3weeks etc.
2007-01-21 14:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello libragurl,
Guys love sex, so, if anything he's counting his lucky stars that he met such a wonderful girl like you. I think that it's mostly girls that worry about this whole respect thing. Best of luck to you.
--Rick
2007-01-21 14:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive never lost respect for any of the women ive been with.. sex on the first night is great. ive initiated long term relationships because of it. we're all human. i say do what you want when it feels right,
2007-01-21 14:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,because it makes the girl look like shes easy if you know what i mean and the girl loses her self respect also
2007-01-21 14:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she did it with me the first time we met,then how many more she did it to before me.
2007-01-21 14:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They usually do because there is no challenge.
2007-01-21 14:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the do. they might think that gal is slut or something.
2007-01-21 14:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by champa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋