My best friend is 14 and hasnt had her first kiss and she thinks that since shes gone out with a guy or kissed one that there is no hope for her and she will never get married. I dont know what to tell her. Any opinions?
2007-01-21 14:15:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
.She will get married I didn't have my first kiss until 15, she is WAY too young worry about married it isn't always what it's cracked up to be. But if it helps you can tell her what my mom told me, she said, The right guy is out there for you, but maybe for whatever reasons he is not ready to be with you just yet. He may have some unfinished business in life that he needs to experience, and take care of BEFORE he meets you. Then she went on to say, Hell, maybe he's far away like in Arizona or something! The man I married just happened to be from Arizona, while the marriage isn't that great her words still haunt me today. Freaky, huh?
2007-01-21 14:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she is 14 shouldn't have her thinking that she won't ever get married. Tell her she is young and that love will come and go and she shouldn't worry about weather or not she will get married or get that she hasn't had her first kiss. She should focus on herself and that she'll get her first kiss soon enough. There is plenty of time for kissing and getting married. Finish school go to college and have a great time with your friends and with her youth, because before she knows it it'll all be over and then she's wasted time thinking about trivial things like will i ever get married. Time is on her side right now and live life to the fullest! Good Luck!
2007-01-21 22:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that fourteen isn't very old. She will one day find a guy and be kissed by him. She will probably grow up and get married. I guess at fourteen, you think it's the end of the world and that you will be an old maid or nun. When she's older, she will look back and see that fourteen wasn't even a drop in the bucket. Let her know that there is someone out there, waiting for her to be in his life as well and he might not have had his first kiss/girlfriend yet.
2007-01-21 22:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss her. Idc if you are a girl or even if you're straight, that would just be so hot if you did. Any guy either of you ever meet again that's straight will be turned on if he finds out about you being her first... i could be wrong though. lol
I'm just kidding okay? Tell her it will be fine. Do a search on Questions for what a guy likes in a girl and find my answers and give her those advisaries (partly because i'm tired of answering this question). Give her nice clothes, clear face, nice hair and make her a laughing person (laughs a lot w/o being bubly) and then she will be considered hot and from there the kisses will spring. Eventually. There i repeated that advise from before, are you happy? She'll be fine.
2007-01-21 22:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by that guy with the face 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's only 14. Tell her to give it some time. You want the first kiss to be memorable.
2007-01-21 22:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jen G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should show her how to kiss like that scene in Cruel Intention with Sarah Michelle Gellar and that one chick. Then she will gain the confidence she needs.
Seriously though, she doesn't have to worry, tell her she will find a guy and not to worry, or worse yet hurry to get into a relationship.
2007-01-21 22:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sir Alex Awesome Valentine, Esq. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be 21 next Sunday and I haven't had my first kiss yet. I believe that everything happens for a reason and there is someone out there for everyone. Everyone's timing is different for things to happen and if it hasn't happened now it will happen eventually the right guy just has to come along to make it happen and it will surely be worth the wait.
2007-01-21 22:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it would be better to have her first kiss with someone she loves instead of with someone she barely knows. 14 is a very young age. She shouldn't worry about it as much as she is, tell her to be patient.
2007-01-21 22:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by wouldn't-u-like-to-know ;] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she is toooooo young to even worry about it. My goodness, I didn't marry until I was 32 and am very glad that I can support myself and dint need a man..... find out who you are first before you feel you need a guy!!!
2007-01-21 22:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by sushihen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she's too early to have a kiss or be in love. She might get into trouble and she will be ashamed.
2007-01-21 22:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by justine w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋