How do you feel about your crush? Do you think it is normal for me to feel this way?

Question

I like this guy, a lot, and last night I didn't get to ask him out like I planned on. So, today, I feel sad. Really sad, crushed in almost a way. I wasn't ignored or regretted last night.

So, my question for you is how do you feel about your crush?

Is it normal for me to feel like I have the heaviest weight on my heart?

After I call him tomorrow, I will add more details and let you know what happened...if I get his voicemail and leave a message and he doesn't call me back, then, I guess I'll have to move on, which I don't want to do.

Answer 1

Yeah it sure does. You have to muster the courage and go for it one of these days before its too late.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Yes it is normal!

It is called a CRUSH - if it were easy... it would be called something else... like uh - I kinda like this sorta cute person...

Anyways, if you got up the courage to ask him out last night... you can do it again! There should not be a reason you can't try again, at a different time.

Just keep thinking - positively about yourself!

Your confidence should help you snag that date!

Answer 3

I had this bad crush on this girl for like 3 years (she never would look at me) and I never had the guts to ask her out. It would be like some one put me in a blender every time she flirted with another guy. Finally she moved away I never told her how I felt.
Learn from my mistake and take action remember the worst he can say is no.

Answer 4

If you really like this guy and you do want something more with him, don't be afraid to talk to him. I know it's hard to talk to your crush, but it's better to know if he feels the same way too or not. If he feels the same way too, than that's great. If he doesn't feel the same way, hey, at least you tried and at least now you know so you can move on. It's better to know than to wonder forever if he likes you back.

Answer 5

yeah, i pretty much feel the same way in the situation. i feel heartbroken a lot of times over my crush. my advise, show him that you really care, and take a chance right away next time. if he doesn't want to go out with you then his answer won't change. look for the bigger and better guys. point: take a chance!

Answer 6

ok, well in the start, i couldn't get my mind off of him.i thought he was perfect, no one could be better.as time moved on he moved on.then i strated to realize his real flaws.there weren't many.he wasn't the "perfect guy" i thought he was.save urself the heartache, and figure out if hes reli right for u.if u no he had no feelings for u whatsoever, let go of him, no man is worth your tears.but to reli answer your question, i felt as if he was the only thing i knew about, he was the only thing i wanted to learn more about, he was the only one who could make me happy, untill unfortantly another girl came up in his life.. : (
best of luck to u.

Answer 7

You are normal..When i asked out my crush by a note, immediately afterwards i became DEPRESSED like i skipped four classes and i listened to enya LOL..even tho i knew i had a 50% chance of a yes. bcuz he hadnt answered yet

Answer 8

Yes it is. Sometimes you look forward to something and it doesn't happen. So you just have to do it right then and there before anything has a chance to stop you.

Answer 9

well i have a crush on this guy...and it seems like a lot more than a crush...and i wanna talk to him but then when i back out and i don't it feels like I have a heavy wieght on my heart.

Answer 10

its normal.