how should i do this?

Question

i like this girl from school, we've never talked before. after school, she would just stand alone to wait for her mom to pick her up.
I really want to get to know her....but if i just walk up and start talking to her, she might be like "ah...who are u?"
is there a good way to approach this?

Answer 1

Yes. Walk up to her and introduce yourself. Tell her that you've seen her in such and such a class, and you've been wanting to talk with her for awhile. But you've only, just now, worked up the courage to approach her.

Most girls would react positively to this approach. They kind of like the idea of being worshipped from afar.

Keep the conversation light and non-threatening. You can find out about the things she likes, and see if your interests mesh in any way. Then you can slip in an invitation for a date to a coffee bar, or a movie.

Answer 2

Write Her A Note Telling Her About Yourself, Before Her Mom Gets There Give Her The Note, Maybe In The Note Draw A Rose - Or Have Someone You Know Draw One For You - My Current Boyfriend Did That And I Fell In Love With Him, And We've Been Together For 4 Years [= Good Luck!

Answer 3

just walk up and start talking to her, if she says "ah...who are u?"
Stop talking and walk away. NEVER speak to her again. She is not the type of girl you want to get to know anyway. You seem nice and if you have the balls to approach her, and she gives you some crap response like that move on and find someone else.

Answer 4

Hey I'm _____ whats your name. Chics reply: ______. You: Watcha doing? Chic: Waiting on my mom. You: well we are in the same boat then (this should get a small laugh). You: I think my mom has to change all 4 of her tires before she gets here (bigger laugh). She should start a conversation right about now if that's the case follow right along (she should talk about 75% of the time and you 25%).
Hope this helps,
Roger

Answer 5

just start by saying hi
find out what shes into a bit and strike up a conversation... or something thats goin on at school and talk about it
if shes not very shy.. she'll talk alot
make sure u have a few topics in mind before u approach her so its not awkward

Answer 6

ask your parents to pick you and while you wait, start a conversation, ask a question, about your math homework, or a comment about how you dont like it when your parents take long to pick you up, cuz you dont know what to do while you wait, etc. trust me, if she likes you, she will start talking to you; before you leave, dont forget to ask her for her name (even if you already know it, and tell her it was nice to meet her) the next time you see her, it will be easier to talk to her!!!

P.S. Let us know what happens!!! Good Luck!!!

Answer 7

Hi o.o,

Just walk up to her while she's waiting. Say, "Hello. My name is ____. How are you? I couldn't help noticing you waiting here every day." Let her go from there.

Remember, that you don't even know her, so don't quickly start to hump her leg, but do try to talk with her. Communication is important for any kind of relationship. If you can't talk with her, how do you expect to have any kind of relationship with her?

So, go for it. Best of luck to you.

--Rick

Answer 8

well, being a teenage girl I'd say that it's really flattering to have a guy i don't know walk up to me and be friendly. i'd say, just take a chance. if you are still to afraid then make up some cheesey excuse like, hey do you have Mr.___, oh, well do u no if we had any homework. try to start out slowly, and work ur way into it. it always works for me!

Answer 9

well coming from a girls point of view...

try something to break the ice, if she is in one of your classes, try asking for homework or borrowing notes or something. Dont try to say something so stupit that scares her cuz first impression is everything. or to be a funny guy, some guy did this once to me and i thought it was kinda cute cuz he was shy he tried asking me the elephant joke. if you never heard of it it goes " Do you know how much an elephant weights" ( wait for answer from person) well enough to break the ice, hi my name is_____."

just remember to be yourself and show her who you are, dont let her like you for someone else.

good luck to you, hope i helped

Answer 10

You should talk to her that let she knows you. OR, you can make friends with someone who are close to her. You are a MAN. Be Confident. If she doesn't know you, how can you date her, eh?