Even girls who claim to be real fall for the guys that tell them what they want to hear. Would driving a fast car, telling girls I make alot of money, and pimp slapping them occasionally give me a better chance of getting some on the first or second date.
2007-01-21 13:56:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope.
You have other things to deal with
2007-01-21 13:59:58 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have come to the conclusion that younger girls so lets say up to 30 (and granted some learn faster then others) go along the animalistic instinct that the seemingly more dominant male is the best choice, hense the asshole or jerk or the tough acting rich guy.
Eventually after getting screwed over they learn the nice guy's are better, but that's usually later.
So what do nice guys do? Well the wait, which is good and bad.
Good being if they do find a girl she is usually a keeper.
Bad in that the choices are more limited until later on in life, so you might not find one of those good girls.
But if a nice guy looks around he will find a nice girl, there are plenty of them out there.
2007-01-21 22:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, please don't lie. Women go for men who they can respect and who treats them well. This is the key. Different women need different things in order to respect a man:
Honesty, loyalty, integrity (most women need these)
money, social status, height (some women need one or more of these and some need none of these)
1) Go for someone in your league. Balance of power keeps everyone happy.
2) Don't pick girls with mean personalities (you'll know by the way she treats others around her)
3) Treat her nicely and expect her to treat you nicely
4) Nice guys don't finish last... that's a bunch of bull they tell men so that they can sell stupid ebooks titled "super secret ways to seduce women"
5) Display the things that you have that would make a woman respect you. If you don't have money or social status or whatever, then display your integrity, loyalty, bravery, physical strength, handiness around the house, cooking skills or what ever qualities you have. You will end up with a woman who appreciates the qualities you have and end up filtering out the women who do not appreciate the qualities you have and are looking for other qualities.
2007-01-21 22:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by violetkites 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. LYING Is Not The Key And I Dont Know About Other Girls But If You EVER 'Pimp Slapped' Me..I'd Probablly Kick Your ***
2007-01-21 22:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did a social experiment once where I acted like an ****** towards a girl. After a week of this, she asked me out! So yes, nice guys finish last.
2007-01-21 22:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by DonnieD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. Be yourself. Nice guys that finish last are usually the ones that girls end up with. Remember that sometimes in dating, people save the BEST for LAST.
2007-01-21 22:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your younger, yes. it sucks. i have a great girl and I'm a nice guy, but she is only 21, she is 3 years younger. unfortunately her mom is from the upper class and I'm mid class. so I'm not good enough in her eyes. but my girlfriend has times she thinks like her mother. but when she doesn't i do great. i worry sometimes, what happens if it "doesn't work out", then i have noticed i have a lot of girls around me. my answer is not to lie, tell the truth. it sounds stupid but think of her as a guy(this will relax you).just remember you can get her.
2007-01-21 22:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by mark j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, first she will found out in the end and if she has any class she will see right through it in the first place.
2007-01-21 22:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by Roger J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Patriotic native America,
I'm not sure, but it sure seems like it sometimes, doesn't it? I think that women really go for guys who have self-confidence. They go for guys that aren't really chasing them, that cause them to do a little chasing.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2007-01-21 22:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, with your goal of getting some on the second date you do not have to act like a jerk to be completely honest.
2007-01-21 21:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by Rob S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋