I have been single for a few years now and really want to start dating...but really scared of rejection because of being overweight........it seems every where you look men still want the perfect "showpiece" and that makes me feel worse that i won't be able to find someone.Please HELP........No mean answers please!
2007-01-21 13:53:18 · 28 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being over overweight shows your inability to control yourself..
What if a guy not able to control his urge to takes drugs?? Would you like him?? Definitly he will find a girl who would like him.. but those cases are rare...
Switch off your computer computer... join a gym... do light exercises... This will help you in loosing weight..
2007-01-21 13:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by DTS 2 · 1⤊ 7⤋
I'm sorry to hear your a little ashamed of your weight and worried about rejection. And yes, unfortunately, most men do prefer that "showpiece" on their arm, but that's o.k. they're not meant or right for you. However, believe it or not, there still are men out there, few and far between, who appreciate a person for who they are , not how much they weigh.
Patience, your Mr. Right is still looking for you too.
2007-01-21 14:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by Gargirl™® 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that everywhere there are men who like plus size women, some of the most beautiful females I have as friends are plus size, a good place would be probably found on the internet where there are clubs listed.
2007-01-21 13:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by nissdonna 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The problem isn't meeting men that like large women, its about your self-confidence. If you are embarresed about the way you look then that will repel men. You need to either go on a diet and change your body to fit the image you have for it or stay fat and change your idea of your self-image so you can be confident about yourself.
2016-03-29 08:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a mean answer--so please don't take it that way--If you are looking for a woman that is your size --then where is it that you like to go?? Do you like to go to the food courts at the mall?? If not that's one spot you are going to find persons that like to eat--and how about say Izzy's or other buffet style restaurants at dinner or lunch time--and another place is at the plus size stores--I am not a plus size but I just simply asked myself if I were looking for someone that was my style where would i go?? And then put myself in your shoes--I hope these helped and good luck in finding companion (maybe for life) My husband just said go to a bar--I myself don't think too many people find long lasting relationships at bars--but you might find some new friends if nothing else--and have some fun hanging out !!
2007-01-21 14:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well I am from Raleigh, North Carolina and every where I go I see a plus size women with a good looking man. Most of my family is plus size and I know that they keep their selfs up by getting their hair done and nails + toes also by dressing nice with out big pieces of cloths and keep on little but enough make-up, so it is within yourself...it's all about how you carrie yourself...
2007-01-21 13:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by XOXOXO 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The internet dating sites are great to find good men. You can find crazy ones to, so be careful. I have found some great men that some ended up in a relationship with happy endings and then some great friendships have come out of them also. But with all that I have found a great man that I love dearly and am very happy with....almost three years later.
2007-01-21 13:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by stepande 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
As a plus sized female, I know what you are experiencing.
If you are proud to be who you are regardless of what size you are, people (not just members of the opposite sex) will be drawn to you.
If you are scared that people will reject you because of your weight, they will see that, and will reject you.
Start thinking "This is who I am, if you don't like me that is your tough luck, not mine"
Be confident in who you are. It works for me.
Give it a shot.
Your Mr Right is waiting for you.
2007-01-21 14:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a stationary bike and sit it in front of your TV and ride it, I worked at a spa for years and know this is best way to lose weight.If you will just stick with it , you will lose weight.
Why not? it wont hurt.
You have to eat whole natural foods. Since you wont a man you have to do something to attract him, Yourself.
Though I am sure your a wonderful person.
Please do this for yourself, or you might stay alone for the remainder of your life.Hon.
go to church to find a real man.
Good Luck
2007-01-21 14:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Start holding your head up high and stop being so self conscience and strut your stuff.Go out there with confidence and men will flock to you.Men love girls that don't ned reassurance.So be big and be proud!
2007-01-21 14:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by AJ78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was watching t.v. once and they were talking about a club in NYC that only allowed overweight girls in. a lot of guys went because they liked that. hope it helps. good luck. and don't let any one make you feel bad or make you believe you are any thing less than beautiful.
2007-01-21 14:01:19 · answer #11 · answered by Caligirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋