ok....i meet this guy at church he is really nice!!!......and i talked to him on myspace and then on aim like......EVER!!!.....about god and a bunch of other stuff......it seems like we really hit it off ....then i went to his cousins house to do her familys hair and she like told me out of no where that he likes me....:)....i was all happy but then that night at church he like bairly talked to me.......so what i wrong.???...is he shy or dose he just not like me??????...im confused
2007-01-21 13:51:49 · 10 answers · asked by tiffany b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, i've been the guy in this situation before. It does not mean for any reason that he doesn't like you, it probably means one or more of the next few things:
he's going out w/ another girl
He's not comfortable talking to you in church
he didn't get enough sleep or
somehting else is keeping him from thinking about you.
You could just ask why he no talk to you, but that might just make him uncomfortable. My suggestion is telling him about any feelings you have for him. Good or bad, it'll work out faster if you just tell him (just for God's sake don't tell him right away to start a conversation; it will forever more awkward-ize whatever relationship you end up having). Anyway, he probably has his reasons for being quiet, but even if he was doubting how much he likes/d you, you can work past it if you tell and/or show him you like him. Unless there be another girl. In which case, i'm sorry.
Hey, tell me how this works out, this happens to me sometimes and i'd like to know the female end of it.
2007-01-21 14:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by that guy with the face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably shy. Maybe he found out his cousin told you, and doesnt know how you feel so he's avoiding the subject and the easiest way to do that is to not talk to you. try letting him know you'd like to get to know him better, maybe that will break the ice.
2007-01-21 21:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably was just embarrased. Now you have to take the next step and somehow get to him that you like him and then you can start the real stuff. Good Luck!!!
2007-01-21 21:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by secret love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet he just knows that you found out he likes you and is just a little embarassed. Don't show him that you know he likes you just act like you did the first day you met him. He will warm up.
2007-01-21 21:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by motoxboy2k3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he seems like he likes you, then as soon as somebody told you he got quiet, I'd say yeah, he really does like you. my guess is that he found out what his cousin said, and you haven't done anything about it, so he's kinda bummed out & thinks that maybe you don't like him!
2007-01-21 21:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha Marie <3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am 2 confused
2007-01-21 21:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy most likely he probably feels a little awkard after telling you he likes you
2007-01-21 21:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by Joe D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him u like him worst thing that could happen is he rejects u if he does then hes not worth your time. if not you might have a bf!
2007-01-21 21:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by totllyconfusied_77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he talked to you alot he likes you, he is just shy as many guys are around girls they have fallen for.
2007-01-21 21:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by Rob S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dose you use spell check?
2007-01-21 21:55:41 · answer #10 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋