I had only been dating this girl for about 9 months, but I am totally in love with her. She is everything I have ever wanted in a girl and she is the only thing I really care about. We we're happy until I hit a phase in my life where I did a lot of partying and I lost track of what was really important to me and that's her. She just broke up with me about a week ago, and she has told me that she is much happier and that I really hurt her. She says I hurt her more than anyone ever has, but she loved me more than she has ever loved anyone. I don't know what to do. I have told her my feelings and given her space this last week, but I don't know if she is done with me forever. I am completely done with everything I was cought up in and I have figured things out for myself. If she gave me that one chance I would show her how she should be treated and I would make her the happiest girl in the world just like I used to. I just need that one chance, but I dont know how to get it.
2007-01-21 13:41:53 · 9 answers · asked by motoxboy2k3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her a little time, Honey. She is sitting in the corner, licking her wounds, and when she feels stronger she will be back.
2007-01-21 13:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have gone through this with my ex boyfriend.. but when he went to go party.. there were a million of other girls in his life.. it hurt every night not getting his call or not having him with me.. and he wanted to go drink with the boys... it ended in a very bad break up and i very sorry about all of this. but girls have to do what they have to do.. if u hurt her as bad as my ex hurt me she prob. is scared to let you back in. I f you really want her u will find a way to get her back.. its only been a week.. the feeling are still there.. but if u do get her back do me a favor.. don't pull that sh*t again .I had a kid when i was 18 ( a few months ago ) and my ex is still partying.. and it breaks my heart when i have to look at my kid and know what kind of father he has. you sound like a good guy that just made a mistake.. good guys deserve a break .. good luck!!
2007-01-21 13:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by Emmie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope you learned something with the break up. You know if she is still talking to you most likely she won't cut you out of her life. Now comes the part of what are you going to do and will you do what you say you're going to do? Actions speak a lot louder than just words.
2007-01-21 13:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by already_enuff_spice_in_this 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pull her aside and make sure you have her full attention. Tell her what you just typed, it sounded so sweet! Even if I were really mad at a guy, that would make me melttt. Good luck, hun - I think everyone deserves a second chance.
2007-01-21 13:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by Tess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that if I were her and I saw this question, I would take you back. Ive been that person who has wanted that second chance, but never gotten it, I really hope that she gives you one, because you sound like you deserve it.
2007-01-21 13:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by katie t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This song by Sting, The shape of my heart, says this:
"the secret geometry of chance"...
You already had a chance.
But, ask her .. she has the last word.
We know this time, you are going to make it better.
Try to convince her,
Buena suerte Romeo.
2007-01-21 13:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can to to make her come back.
She will have to come back on her own.
Just talk to her and be truthful with her.
Good Luck
2007-01-21 13:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel
2007-01-21 13:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her...tell her how you feel...
2007-01-21 13:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋