PLEASE ANSWER ME!?

Question

so i went on this cruise, and met this guy. he was really nice and we hung out a lot, but i never really had an interest in him, until the 4th night. that night we just hung out me and him the entire night laying down and talking. he was really sweet, and i knew that i'd prob start liking him. we were talking about everything, and the topic of me being a virgin came up. i told him i was a virgin, and he didn't believe me. he wasn't a virgin, but he told me i should really wait for someone i like, and then he said "and it's not going to be me." by the end of the night we ended up making out, and he slept over my room, and he even asked me if the next night we were gonna hang out. the next night he was in the casino, so my friend went to go get him from the casino to hang out. sure enough, he wanted to and came within 10 minutes(meanwhile he had been winning a lot of money), and he came to hang out. we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening naturally, he didn't ask me flat out, and it happened the way i wanted it to, in the moment. when he was putting the condom on however, i asked him what he was doing, and he said "nothing"..i made sure he had a condom on, and he was really gentle, but he didn't talk much. at one point i asked him if he still had the condom on, and he let me feel to make sure it was still on. after we had sex, we went to the casino, and then i left to go to my room to lay down. he said he'd come back to hang out, but i didn't expect him to really. sure enough, he came knocking on my door to spend the night. the next night he had been looking for me, and he thought i was with another guy,so he got upset, and didn't hang out with me for two nights. by the 8th night we met up eventually..and i explained to him that i wasn't with another guy, and we ended up hanging out the whole entire night, me, my friend, and him. he kept saying how i was his girlfriend on the cruise, and that i would be his girlfriend if we lived in the same place. it just so happened i was going to college where he lived in about a year, and he knew that. that night we were hooking up again, and everything led to sex, and this time was even better. he said to me "you said you were a virgin right"..so i said "you remember what happened the other night right?"..and he was like "yeah, we had sex"..so i guess he was asking to be reassured that i was a virgin before him? then we were doing it for a long time, and he was talking a lot more, and physically helping me out, and he constantly asked me if i was alright, and that i need to tell him when to stop or when it hurts. i was in a lot of pain, so he suggested taking the condom off to see if it felt any better, it felt a lot better and it was only for 2 seconds, but he did say to me "the only thing is..if we take the condom off you might have to give me head"..well..i didn't end up giving him head, because i didn't want to. that night he slept over again, and we had plans to hang out the whole entire day the next day. the last night, we hung out the whole night..and then he kissed me on the lips goodbye. we exchanged myspaces and aim screen names, and after the cruise he commented me right away. we had talked back and forth for awhile..and at one point i thought he was avoiding me..so i wrote him a letter saying if you don't write back then i know you don't want anything to do with me, but he did write back, so that showed me that he cared. i ended up surprising him and visiting him one day, and he was really happy to see me. he told me i need to call next time so we can hang out..and he wanted to make sure i was definitely still coming to college near him. we talked for awhile, and then i had to leave..so he kissed me on the lips goodbye, and wrote to me about a week later asking me how my trip was, and telling me to call him next time.

1.does it sound like he liked me a lot?
2.why would he ask me if i was a virgin when he knew i was already?
3.why did i need to give head if he didn't have a condom on?
4. why did he come back to lay with me after the first time we had sex?

Answer 1

Did you stop to take a breath once while writing your question? Oh my God! Okay here are the answers to your questions:

1. Yes
2. He was probably confused as to why you would give it up to some random guy like him.
3. He just wanted head.
4. Because he likes you or he just wanted more a s s.

Answer 2

Of course he likes you, you gave into him. Most men are dogs and he is too proud of the fact that he broke you. Guys don't like head with a condom on because it doesn't feel the same and naturally he would come and lay with you again, he was giving you time to want him. He was playing you and still is. He wants you to call so that he can set up the whole seduction scene for you. IF you go see him again do not give in to having sex, if he still calls you and writes you then he may be worth it. However, if he doesn't call or seems very bothered by the fact you wouldn't give it up, then sunshine give him up. take care of you and Good luck.

Answer 3

1.) If he didn't like you a lot he wouldn't have kept in touch with you after you two had sex.

2.) Hearing that you were a virgin makes him feel good about himself. My guy has done something like that.

3.) He wanted to see if you'd offer to give him head. You didn't really need to, he just was hoping you would.

4.) He likes you of course.

Answer 4

LOL *agrees with BJ*!!!

8 days on a cruise and you lost your virginity to a giy you didn't know. To answer your questions - he could like you. It sounds like he likes you but damn did you have to write a story about it?

For future references - keep it simple:
who?
what?
where?
how?
when?
Basically - get to the point.

Answer 5

Why? Because he is into you that is why, just always use protection or maybe you should get birth control, and take care of yourself.