it was a surprise for him
2007-01-21 13:38:41 · 41 answers · asked by jackie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry....You cut YOUR hair and HE hates it ??? Too bad...last time I looked you were a human being, are you not ? and you have the RIGHT to do what you want, when you want ?
He can hate whatever he wants, but if he loves you, then he loves ALL of you....
2007-01-21 13:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by Chrys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he hates it, you need a new boyfriend, he's suppose to love you no matter what. He wasn't even suppose to say he hates it, he was suppose to say "I think it's different and okay but I like your hair better before." O and I know this because my hair was to the end of my face and yesterday I got it cut really short and kinda like a pixie, but really cute. My boyfriend said it's different but he likes it. Some guy out there besides your boyfriend will like your hair and love you for who you are. It doesn't matter whats on the outside, it matters whats on the inside. I'm black, he's white people never thought we would end up together but we love each other for our personality.
2007-01-21 13:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by julyleobaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't really matter if he likes it or not. Sure it would be nice if he said oh honey that looks so nice but he didn't. It is YOUR hair and you should cut it for YOU, not HIM. Too many people now a days live their lives for others. You have to be happy or you won't make anyone else happy. Tell him that's the way it is and he can just live with it. Hair is such a trivial thing.
2007-01-21 16:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If something as simple as a haircut can severly impact the way he feels about you then he probably isn't the kind of person you want to be dating.
He should love you for the person you are, not an insignificant part of your physical apperance. Obviously physical attraction is a part of any relationship... don't let anyone kid you. But hair will grow back, and he should know that. If he's getting all "uppity" about it then there's something else going on.
2007-01-21 13:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by Nathan H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what made you want to get your hair cut anyway?
did he mention that you needed to do anything with your hair?
if no then yes it is a definate surprise to him. but why did you feel you needed to change something about yourself for him.
he obviously likes you for you. and prefered your hair as it was.
rememebr that you only have one life. so you need to make your life as happy as you can for YOU, you are the one person you need to keep happy as you wil be withyourself your entire life, if you do not like anything about yourself then make a change by all means. but NEVER change your appearance just because you think someone else will prefer you looking that way. especially your boyfriend. he is with you because he like you now and who you are. if you go changing things without consulting him for his opinion then it makes him think you do not value his opinion and so he may get angry and say things he does not mean deep down. he may have said to your face that he does not like the new cut, but he may secretly love it and the only reason he said he hates it is because you failed to consult him on the change.
seriously if he does have a problem with your new hair style and you love it, either let your hair grow back naturally or keep the new style and get rifd of your curren guy and get a guy who will love the new you.
life is too short to be spending time with people who upset us or do not appreciate us.
so consider your options carefully.
good luck. and i hope it works out for the best for you both.
2007-01-21 14:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hair grows.Also takes time to get used to a new style. If your boyfriend says he hates it, maybe his next gift should be a class in basic manners?
2007-01-21 13:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by J D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A boy friend who cannot accept you whether you grow hair or not is no good. But next time if you really want him ask his opinion before you do anything.
2007-01-21 13:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by the disturbed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom probable does not like it using fact it makes you look older. i like it lots--it relatively is state-of-the-artwork and lovable on an identical time, and it fits the form of your face. So in basic terms savour it no longer taking so long to bathe and dry your hair, and love your hair for the summer season. in case you do no longer like it interior the long term, nicely, it will strengthen back, yet i think of it relatively is lovable and seems stable on you.
2016-10-31 23:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. He's gonna judge you because of your hair? Find someone who loves you no matter what your hair looks like, and who would love you even if you shaved it all off.
2007-01-21 13:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him 2 get over it.he should care about u 4 who u r and not 4 ur hair.
2007-01-21 13:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by sweet.brunette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋