I really like this girl and would give anything just to be with her. She knows that too, i tell her how i feel about her all the time but she never tells me how she feels. We are "going out" but she never says how she feels. She isnt the shy kind of person either so i am stunned. Should i just ask her or would that be a mistake?
2007-01-21 13:37:13 · 8 answers · asked by badboyjr3172006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask her.
2007-01-21 13:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by User Name 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you you care about her and just leave it there. Don't get clingy or needy or anything just let her know where you stand. If she's a decent person she'll let you know how she feels. Could be she doesn't want to be the first to say it or she's just not on the same page as you.
If it really becomes an issue just ask. She'll tell you and then you won't have to wonder anymore. Its not an easy question to ask but at least wondering will be over.
2007-01-21 13:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by blood_drop2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah, we females are complicated creatures, no? her reaction to your feelings (and hers too most likely) is her shyness!! since it's totally different than her personality, that means she shares the same feelings. she might also act, as cliche as this is, kinda ditzy around you, giggling, blushing, etc. or the other end of the spectrum is that your feelings may be a little too string for her right now. she may like you, but may not think you'll be together forever, and may feel pressure from you to be the same way. ease off a little bit, and give her time she'll come around eventually!! good luck!!
2007-01-21 13:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Duelen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows how you feel. If she didn't return your feelings, she wouldn't date you.
You can also tell her that you care about her and would like to know how she feels about you, but that she can tell you in her own time. That way she knows that you want to know, but isn't put on the spot.
Be careful though, because she may just be with you to be with someone--anyone. And she may enjoy the attention, affection, and admiration with no strings (on her part). If you two are getting serious, you have the right to know.
2007-01-21 13:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is having a difficult time with sharing feelings there are a lot of people who whether shy or outspoken still have a hard time in this area. I don't think you should push her she will tell you when she is ready.
2007-01-21 13:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by crystal A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not tell her your deep feelings yet, going out does not mean she wants to have your emotional burdens yet, play it cool and just have fun, a challenge is a girls conquest of you, give her yourself too early and she will find you boring.
2007-01-21 13:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by Rob S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go flat out and ask her if she likes u she might or might not but she probly does if ur "goin out" good luck and have fun
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2007-01-21 13:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by skeletalgrlforeverwaiting 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you are looking for a strong relationship if shes not intrested then move on
2007-01-21 13:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋