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1.) The girl I like sits next to me in a number of classes. She knows I like her. Whenever I want to say something to her I can't becuase I'm so nervous. I blush whenever we make eye contact. What can I do to make myself less nervous around her. 2.) My friends are always picking on me cause I like her, they're always like "You two make a good couple" and etc. It doesn't bother me, but it's getting annoying and I don't want the girl to be offended. So, what should I tell my friends?

2007-01-21 13:36:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

Talk to her and ask her.
Good Luck

2007-01-21 13:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0 0

Tell them to stop! And get some dirt on them, then threaten to tell everyone, or certain people if they say it again. That's what I do, and trust me it works. I would stay away from her though. I don't think she likes you lyk that, coz she would have given you an answer. If you keep being nice to her, everything you do she'll be tellin her friends and stuff. But if you must, just go up to her (make yourself) then say, i'm having some friends round to my house to gto swimming, or i'm going to the movies with some friends. Do you want to come? make sure you tell them who is coming, and make it people she is friends with too.

2007-01-21 21:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

1. Just think of something to start up a conversation. If you don't want to do much talking, ask how her weekend was. If you're feeling more bold, give her a compliment - I assure you you won't get negative feedback!

2. Just laugh about it, they're just kidding around with you. If you want them to stop, then get her to go out with you. That should shut them up ;)

2007-01-21 21:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by Tess 4 · 0 0

Well First off ignore your friends! Second Girls like it when you just be yourself, give yourself some time to get to know her on a basic friend level. Like just ask her simple questions like: So, How are you doing today? Or What do you think about this test today? Keep it simple, you need to develop the basics so you don't get so nervous. Then as you get to know her you can ask her more things that are more personal, Remember you start the communication, Girls like to talk about everything and anything! When you listen to her, look right in her eyes and always give her your complete attention! You will lead into the more personal questions like you say: "Hey, What did you think about that book we read: I like it because..." What do you think? If you ever see her looking sad or stress out, Ask her what is wrong and give her words of encouragement! Girls love it when they know you value them! From there you should have enough confidence to ask her out because by this time you should know her pretty well. Just remember it takes time and great commutation. If you ever get to go out:Try following my 5 biblical principles for finding your soul mate: Ask yourself:
1. Does she love you for who you are (inside first than out)? The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
2. Does she honor you? Will she do things just to make you happy? Will she try some of the things you are interested in or maybe shares some of the same interests and hobbies? The Bible says:
* “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:10
3. Cherishes your body, mind and soul? Doesn't go to far on these things until your ready? The Bible says: * “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet Spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3-4
4. You trust her to the fullest? She is your best friend and you are hers? The Bible Says: * “ Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:7
5. You communicate well? She understands you like he could be your twin? The Bible says: * “ Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29

To Sum it up: Stick to 1. Love 2. Honor 3. Cherish 4. Trust 5. Communication and I promise if your relationship is based on these things you will know what its like to find true love! And Yes! I have used my principles myself and I am convinced I have found my soul mate! But to find her I also used these same principles to weed out my soul mate from the relationships that just didn't work. In addition, letting God and Jesus Christ lead your heart, mind, body and soul also aid in the weeding process. God Bless!

2007-01-21 21:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Forget your friends.

Ask the girl out. Ask her if she would like to go out to lunch or for a smoothie some time.

If she says yes, your set. If she says no, then she doesn't like you and you should find someone else.

If she says yes and later no, she is probably an attention wh*** and you should completely ignore her, and find someone better.

Good luck

2007-01-21 21:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 0 0

pass her notes.its usually easier 2 write something 2 someone u like instead of saying it 2 their face.

2007-01-21 21:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by sweet.brunette 3 · 0 0

that what goes on in your romantic life is none of their buissness.... you could also point out their lacking in the romance department... or tell them that you must be a stud if all they have to talk about is you.

2007-01-21 21:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by User Name 5 · 0 0

Just take it easy, opportunity will come, and tell your friends, how you feel about her,

2007-01-21 21:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

1. Sorry but, FACE YOUR FEARS AND JUST TALK, act like yourself, but not annoying girls HATE that
2. if they make fun of you, then they arent true friends, and stand up for yourself, change for a chance

2007-01-21 21:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Tell your friends to BUTT OUT! Tell them if they don't stop teasing you, you won't talk to her.

2007-01-21 21:46:51 · answer #10 · answered by The Nomad Yokai 3 · 0 0

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