Well, I got into an argument with my friend...
SO, the question is... how long are you supposed to wait before having sex with your partner?
I told my friend, there was no such thing as having sex on the first meeting (after you're officially boyfriend and girlfriend) for a classy lady or a gentleman, unless you're meeting a sl4t or a mofo...
So what do you think?
To me probably about 3 months because you really want to know the person you are with before you jump the boat...
And... smart person need to find out whether or not their partner has std...
And I believed that sex is the expression of love not lust... don't you think?
2007-01-21 13:35:28 · 22 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think there should be such a wait before having a sexual relationship with someone you truly like or love. It all depends on how you feel at the time and how the situation becomes. Sex is not something you should plan or schedule.
2007-01-21 13:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by super beautiful 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there's really a set time frame. Circumstance comes into play. If you love them and trust them and want the physical aspect and know they feel the same than thats what counts. Not the specific number of times you've gone out. Or how many months you've been together.
It could be weeks or years depending on the person you're with and what you both feel
2007-01-21 21:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by blood_drop2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, firt date/meetin is probably considered cheap- but if you can go 3 months, and you see each other a couple of times per week, and you are in your 20s, I wonder how much passion can there be... and if you dont have that level to start with, and build a relationship on when there is real glue to make you want to stick together.. this peters of in 18months.. so i would say be reasonable, but dont artificially hold back for some time based morality- its not based on time, its based on personal interaction and personal progress- how you get on and how you feel..
2007-01-21 21:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's different for everyone, but I say marriage. I know that I won't be in a situation to potentially deal with the consequences of sex (pregnancy, etc.) until I'm married. I want that emotional connection to be with my future husband, not some guy I used to date back then.
2007-01-21 21:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until after the wedding official pronounces you man and wife. Then try to make it through the reception.
2007-01-21 21:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you wait until you are committed to the relationship and until you are both comfortable moving ahead in that direction. Sex is an expression of love and dedication.
2007-01-21 21:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by pnut 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree no sex on the first date but it depends on the couple they will do it when the time is right for both of them.
2007-01-21 21:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The couple should wait until after they are married. I know that doesn't happen a lot these days, but it would be nice.
2007-01-21 21:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let's see. I just started dating her today. If she gives me the chance, I'm going to knock the bottom out of it. If there's another guy out there that says he wouldn't, then he's queer like you Jimmy the Cricket.
2007-01-22 03:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends really between you and your partner. It all depends on what you are comfortable with, what you think is right and your relationship.
2007-01-21 21:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by julyleobaby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋