I haven't even started dating him yet, but I will soon, I can feel it. I love him already but when should I tell him so? And should I panic if he doesn't say it back?
2007-01-21 13:32:51 · 6 answers · asked by Kali 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have known him my whole life
2007-01-21 13:39:20 · update #1
at minimum a month, say it NO sooner than that, and honestly that is probably too soon as well.
2007-01-21 13:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you havent started dating yet- how can you know you love him? Have you traveled with him? Have you discussed important issues and politics? Would you be selfless in giving to him? Would he do that for you? You may just be feeling infatuation... You will know when its love and when to say i love you.. You shouldnt even question it. But it just sounds like if you arent even a "thing" yet- then it may not even be a relavant issue, unless you loved him as friend, colleague etc..
2007-01-21 21:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you love him? It could be just lust.
but if you are really sure, than you should tell him when you feel like it..but if it's too soon, he might get scared...try to wait a couple of months
2007-01-21 22:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by ilovelifelovemusic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you are feeling right now is lust. It is possible to love in a short period of time, but only after really get to know that person, and this comes after spending lots of time together.
2007-01-21 21:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by matthaumschild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't say it with in the 1st month bcuz more then likely he will say it back.. but he wont mean it....i would say say it when you mean it.. but if you already love him.. you should wait about a month...you dont wanna scare him away!! if you kno what i mean..
2007-01-21 21:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha Powell lolz.=) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him when you are ready and you think that he is ready...if he does not say it back to pressure him...he might just need more time....dont say something that you dont mean....something like saying 'i love you' is something that you cant just take back!...good luck
2007-01-21 21:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by thatonegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋