Ok so i want to ask something, heres some backstory:
There is this whore-lets call her V- & her family I didnt want my bf to hang out with cuz I am not allowed to hang out with guys, but also cuz everytime i was there her dad would say how he should be with her and not me, and that made me pissed.
so I asked him for daze to stay away from her house. and he finally (reluctantly and with much struggle) gave up and did.
Ok- here i had a friend-lets call her S- for 4 yrs and me and my bf had some problemz b 4 and were on a break, and me and S went to a party and he got all jelous and drove to my town and called her tons of times to try and find where it waz and she didnt tell him so he drove for hours lookin for it, but gave up eventually and went home. He still holds taht against her
we worked it out, and one of the agreements was that He promised to take me back if I didnt hang out with her, so for a while i didnt, But now i want to.
everytime I ask if I can, he cuts me off for a week and gets all pissed and says "well i gave up V for you, so why are u hanging out with S?"
But I think that giving up V makes up for me not being friends with guys, not for me not being friends with S, and that pisses me off because I miss S so much.
DAmn, so my question is what should I do about this? Is there a way that I can change his mind? S already apologized (pretty damn sincirely) and he basically said she was full of BS. How can I get him to let me hang out with who I want?
Also- V might be in one of our classes in college. And we might be giving V a ride to school- which will lead to us all hanging out. Ugh.
plz help.
2007-01-21 13:31:22 · 8 answers · asked by metalstefl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jesus, well it doesn't seem fair that you can't hang with S, she is a girl. It is perfectly fine that you requested him to stay away from V. And now you might be giving her a ride to school, nope, that wouldn't fly. This guy needs to mature a little, and if you don't trust him to hang out with other girls, than maybe you should find yourself a trustworthy college guy....good luck!
2007-01-21 13:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by I do what I want.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks to me like you guys have a trust problem and you need to work on that first. trust is the most important thing in a relationship then you need to knoe that you cant choose each others friends or aquaintences. you need to seek some help from ur familys and friends sumtimes thats the best way to go.
2007-01-21 21:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by April 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I don't understand what the problem is with S....you are a grown up....you made a grown up decision to go to a party with S....S was loyal to you, and stood by your choices, as any good friend would do.....I think personally it is just a way to control you....men really like to keep their women as isolated as possible just taking care of them personally....You need to be strong....and tell him there was never a possibility of you sleeping with S....as there was with him sleeping with V (as she was being pushed on him)....So he is just going to have to trust you....but you are not giving up a good and loyal friendship on the basis of blackmail....and you promise that you won't sleep with her ....lol....good luck.
2007-01-21 21:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that if he is going to be giving V a ride and she will be in one of the classes and he talks to her that you WILL be talking to S. dont make it a "if" situation. tell him what is going to happen. bros before hoes.
2007-01-21 21:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by punkins_wife121705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's not respecting your opinion. If he doesn't respect u why waist your time?
2007-01-21 21:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by tori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a D d kicked in used to smoke mucho pot .
2007-01-21 21:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You lost me at ok.
2007-01-21 21:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by noddy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-01-21 21:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋