My bf dumped me and it was harsh for no good reason at all....on CHRISTMAS. Now hes hooking up with a girl who was my friend.
He says he is still physically attracted to me
While we went out he said he loves how small i was (5'2, 110 lbs) because hes a football/bball player and liked to pick me up alot.
He says he still thinks I'm hot and I think it's perfect because now I'm 101 lbs and his other girl is pretty big.
Honestly, I'm not trying to stop eating, I LOVE eating..I just really have had zero appetite lately and and impulse to go running. Last night when he saw me he scooped me up and tried to start kissing me (he was drunk) and said "Holy sh** I can feel your ribs. Why did I dump you!?" I pushed him away and laughed at him.
Why am I not hungry? I'm not trying to get thin but now I'm seeing maybe its a good way to get back at him because he REALLY tore me apart. I loved him and was very good to him...and now I have lost 2 friends thanks to him. Is this a good way?
2007-01-21 13:30:52 · 5 answers · asked by susie q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweety, this guy obviously wsa in it for looks, nothing more. You may not be eating because you obviously were hurt by him, and hearing these things from him about your weight probably have an unconscious affect on your eating habits. Don't get to skinny, because you will pay for it in the long road with your health. You were fine at 110. And don't let some guy rule your life. Odds are, you can do much better anyway. Hope this helps!
2007-01-21 13:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 16:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First u neeed to eat or u wil get a disease(anorexia) thats not good!! Well all i got to say is screw him he sees what hes lost and wants it back! ur better than that!
2007-01-21 13:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by brown_eyed_beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a bad way......you don't lose friends.....real friends will be with you forever.....you are young......this will pass....love yourself....enjoy who you are, don't change for anyone...hold your head up high, always...
2007-01-21 13:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please please dont get back with this loser.
2007-01-21 13:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋