I like this guy, but every time we get serious I can't go through with it. He knows all about this, and we've decided not to see eachother as more than just best friends. We talk on the phone/in person at least 2 hours a day, and I couldn't live without him. What should I do?
2007-01-21 13:24:07 · 12 answers · asked by missknightride 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We've been friends for 3 years now, and we've dated 4 times. I talk to him all the time about this, and he said that even though he loves me he thinks I shouldn't worry about him.
When I feel like I can't do it, it's like there's a voice in my head that's telling me that I shouldn't do it...I feel like I can do so much better, but I still like him. All of his freinds think I'm just toying with him, and all of my friends think that he's setting me up for failure and that I can get better...
2007-01-21 13:31:11 · update #1
talk to him about this because he could be afraid that if he gets to close then he could lose you as a friend and hurt you. he probably dosent want that to happen because he feels something special between you and him. he also dosent want to hurt you because you are the only one he can tell his dark secrets to and he trust you. well good luck with him
2007-01-21 13:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by War Child 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm wow...i'm not really sure. Do what you think is best, follow your heart. Good luck.
And to "You're the Dream, Unicorn!"
Shut up yourself.
Its kinda sad that you have nothing better to do than bring people down on Yahoo Answers.
Pathetic.
2007-01-21 21:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by xsayxgoodbyextonightx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends first on your age. If you're under 18, don't let him pressure you into sex if you don't want to have sex.
If you're a legal adult, word of advice: guys who want sex really don't you to be their "best friend". What he's waiting for is an opportunity to nail you. Avoid him.
2007-01-21 21:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by Matt P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As your a girls you doesnt need to do anything, just give him a clue/hint that you fancy's him. See how's his response, eventually by that time you'll get the answer. I hope that help :)
2007-01-21 21:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make up your mind and quit playing with this guys head, if you cant live without him then be with him and stop messing around
2007-01-21 21:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by Joe D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should overcome your fears and just go through with it cause if you dont you might lose him to someone else.
2007-01-21 21:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by Ky_bello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and try to work out your problems.
Good Luck
2007-01-21 21:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes not doing the first move on you then do it, or else you loose him to someone else and its going to hurt you a lot
2007-01-21 21:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him flirt with him just be yourself maybe he feels the same way u do too.
2007-01-21 21:27:28 · answer #9 · answered by boys just come & go like seasons 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky to have such a great friend....:)
2007-01-21 21:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by been_there_done_that 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋