oksy i just went out with this really cute but really short boy. i said yes to himm when he asked me out late last night. and i went out with him till today, this afternoon. and after i broke up with him. i found he bought me alot of jewelry and stuff that says "jesse and sara forever" . well anyway he doesnt know what to do with it all. i feel really bad. what should i do?
2007-01-21 13:08:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but i didnt break up with him because hes short. i broke up with him because i didnt really want to go out with him and felt really bad for going out with him without thinking abut it first.
2007-01-22 09:39:39 · update #1
Alright..first of all, I think he shouldn't have bought you all that stuff after less than a day of going out with someone. Perhaps he is/was more into the relationship then you were...I've had that happen before. If that's the case, you just have to be totally honest with him. The point that he's short souldn't have anything to do with things...I made that mistake and guess what? The love of my life is that same boy.
If you said something to him that you feel bad for saying, then talk to him about it. Tell him what you're feeling, and if you really don't want to go out with him, tell him flat out. Make sure you don't seperate yourself from him totally...let him know that you still want to be friends. If you said yes just spur of the moment, then tell him...it might hurt him initially, but believe me, he'll feel better in the long run!
2007-01-21 13:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by missknightride 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont like the guy you dont like the guy.. how long did you guys date for him to be giving you all this jewelry if only a lil bit thats not good. Also i agree if you broke up with him cause hes short thats not good either. My fiancee wasnt my type and i gave him a chance and that was the best decision i ever made.
Tell him to take the jewelry back if they dont take stuff back sell it on the web.
Dont be with him just because your sorry for him thats like the very worst reason to be in a relationship out of pity or duty.
2007-01-21 13:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by ki4ki_b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look all u have to do is tell him your better off friend. when u tell him that just start to spend time with him. after awhile he'll give u the jewelry and u can wear it. this benefits both of you because he'll have somewhere for the jewelry and you'll be blinging. also if anyone ask whats with the jewelry all u have to say is i got it from a really dear friend. ps. it's hard to come around guys that will buy ladies jewelry so you should keep him in your life he must be a cool guy if he does that.
2007-01-21 13:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kenny H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't like him because he is short? Then you should have thought of that before you said yes. Short people have hearts to. I think you need to answer that question yourself. Obviously you didn't want to date a short guy so you should have told the truth!!
2007-01-21 13:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I think it's kind of creepy that he bought you all that stuff on the first date. It's probably good that you dumped him because if it lasted longer...he could become a real clinger and it would have been even harder to break of with him then...
just ask him if he's feeling ok and you still want to be friends
2007-01-21 14:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by ilovelifelovemusic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, why did u break up with him anyways? if it was because of his height, thats just mean. if u still want to go out with him, u should, no matter what his height is.
2007-01-21 13:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kill yourself for wanting to be with some other tall loser, or just drink some chocolate milk :-]
2007-01-21 13:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him 2 give u another chance
2007-01-21 13:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Restricted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your sorry but he needs to return it-if you dont wanna be with him-dont stay because of that
2007-01-21 13:11:08 · answer #9 · answered by xsecretxowishesx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tel him to sell it on ebay
2007-01-21 13:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋