My bf broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. It feels like there will never be anyone else. Especially no one that will make me feel the way he did when we were together. Is this common?
2007-01-21 13:01:38 · 13 answers · asked by Martha T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen to a man who has been thru 2 "worldwars" in relationhips and plenty of heartaches.everytime i felt like there was no life after "her" but in each case i was wrong.
in every subsequent relationship i got stronger, i used the
experiences to help me move on.u must have an attitude that it's his loss and good riddance.for every guy who breaks up with you there are tons more who would give u the world.
trust me u will move on and be a better woman for it
God bless and good luck
2007-01-21 13:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you feel stronger, you'll be more welcoming of guys looking at you. Time really varies. I would suggest you put on an outfit that you feel best in, get dressed up and go out with your girlfriends to do something fun. When you can start having real fun, you'll shine, and will be more open to letting someone in. It will be hard, because after a bad break up you tend to have trust issues. Just remember everyone is different, and don't think some new guy is going to be like your ex. Good luck!
2016-03-29 08:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is especially when you were or are in love with that person and if you were together for a long period of time and have shared a lot of things that you have not shared with anyone else. Just give it some time don't rush into a relationship because it'll be a rebound you will find yourself comparing him to your ex and you'll miss him more. Someone else will come along and will make you feel even better. Don't rush it.
2007-01-21 13:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very common. Especially if you had a very special emotional connection. I had a relationship once that i felt like that. I mean i thought this was the one, my soulmate, i mean we connected in every way. Of course there have been other men, but i have never felt the same connection with anyone else, not better or worse, just different. When you let yourself heal, you will find someone else.
2007-01-21 13:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by intensegrl74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its common to feel that way, but you have to realize that sometimes things like this happen for the greater good. Sometimes your feelings are stronger than your partners because they have other intentions. To get over it is no easy task, but the best thing for you to do is to work on yourself first, getting back to the things that you enjoy, and eventually things will continue to get better from there on. Know that when you play this game of love, you cant always win, happens to everyone.
2007-01-21 13:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by Samari's Dad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very common reaction after the breakup of a relationship. Of course the reality is that you will meet someone else. Recognize the difference between your initial feelings and the reality of your future path in life.
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2007-01-21 13:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by Richguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That goes away once your interest level returns to where it was before he dumped you. That's about the time you'll remember all his bad traits and think about all the crap he put you through, and then you get mad for a little while and start to think you don't want anybody else, but that passes too, and then you start dating again.
The key is to work your way through it before you jump into another relationship so you don't spread that bad karma.
2007-01-21 13:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very common. Trust me you will be alright. My husband of 15 yrs. left me and I thought it would be the end of the world. But hey, the sun kept on shining and the world kept revolving, and little by little I started breathing again. You are going to go through ahard time for awhile, but then your world will be fine again. Just hold on, you'll see.
2007-01-21 13:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by espee65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, it is common. Every time feels like the worst time, and you always get over it and find someone better. Good luck and cheer up.
2007-01-21 13:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its common. You shouldn't stress it. Its going to take some time for you to get over him. I have felt like that before and its just going to take some time.
2007-01-21 13:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by ~* NISE *~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋