He's just really stressed out from everything. His family, school work, house duties, girlfriend aka me, and he's not a very strong person who takes care of everything. He's a senior in college, very immature. He doesn't have one single female friend since he's very shy so you may say he'll be back once he sorts out his life. But he also says he doesnt want a relationship right now. He just doesnt wanna handle all the stress. So i dont know. I just wanna know if you ever encountered such a guy in your life and according to your experience will he be back?
PS:i'm asking this b/c i'm very inexperienced with relationships. We are each other's first love and we went out for a year. Long distance for 10 months now.
2007-01-21 12:58:21 · 4 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yehow!
I hope your car troubles are over for now.
2007-01-21 13:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by doggybag300 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear. The best thing you can do is read "He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Beherendt. I'm 23 and have been in one long-distance relationship for 2 1/2 years and we broke up over a year ago, but had I read that book, I would have saved a lot of time, and had a lot more fun in college being single and free. DON'T MAKE EXCUSES FOR HIM! If he's that into you, he'll never leave you, no matter what is going on with his school, family, work, house, etc. You can tell the difference between a man and a boy from how they handle crisis. If he can't handle all that stuff and he's about to graduate from college, do you want to be in a relationship with this guy? How will he be able to handle a wife and kids? Not well. Dear, move on. Chances are he won't be back, and to me, that doesn't sound like such a bad thing.
2007-01-21 13:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey my husband of 4 years and father of my two children has pretty much done the samething. I can only hear your side so I don't know what he is thinking, but after a week this is what I have come up with for my husband. If you love something let it go, if it comes back it was ment to be. If it does not then it was never yours to begin with. That and remember everything happens for a reason. I don't want to upset you, but this may be a blessing in disguise who knows.
2007-01-21 13:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by turtlegirl247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know even that means alot cause I would rather tallk to you but "FTW" has been the story of my life .. I am more genuine than I ever had been so you know that I want to have a relationship and see if the chemistry is there because I believe it was never really bad I was too dominearing and didn't allow you to love me or I didn't want to believe. That is why I want to show you and never have to say word.
2007-01-21 13:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋